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Wife beating in Islam - the woman is totally isolated
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110.       Daydreamer
3743 posts
 23 May 2008 Fri 11:35 pm

lol The same old story over and over again. Alamenda try to read my post before answering it. Didn't I write about psychopaths as the only ones using Christianity to account for their crimes? To my best knowledge if you beat a woman, kill your daughter for being raped and the like you go to prison in this bad "Christian" west. Some freaks who happen to go to church and still beat their wives don't quote the bible to justify it Unlike those Muslims who use Quran for this purpose.

That reminds me of this video Handsom posted about how Muslims debate. You speak of flowers and they go on about vegetables. You are an excellent example of not responding to arguments but going off topic Not surprising really. You're on the losing side

And that word...Using analogy to the example I gave (the substitution method) If I say "I can X a rock" X can be replaced by both move and hit. A bit different from the beat word

Handsom is more than right saying that what you perceive as Christian culture is not as discriminatory as Islam. And police is definitely not working basing on Christian laws lol. And that's even in Poland, which is a really religious country. I dislike Christianity and Islam all the same, but I have to give justice and see the difference. Sure you're not able to do it as you're not objective. Still, no matter how much you foam at the mouth you wont change the facts lol

Can I picture what you'll reply?
Alameda will post 3 links from newspapers giving examples of crimes in the west and will consider it a counterbalance for the fact that police doesn't help battered women in the east.

Armegon will applaud her findings and find a verse from the bible talking about killing or the like. He will ignore the fact that no custom of violence is justified in bible. Oh, are we in the middle ages again?

111.       Daydreamer
3743 posts
 23 May 2008 Fri 11:39 pm

Quoting alameda:

"The problem exists despite Islam, but Islam openly encourages it (along with other gender racisms), which consequently leads to what is called "gender apartheidt" in Islam."

This is laughable, do you really think women are as strong as men? Could you come out on top if a man decided to use his strength against you? Gender aparthide.....get real. The fact that males are larger and stronger than females is not the fault of Islam.

BTW gender and race are different.



What? I see now why some Muslim women are so eager to defend men's actions - they consider them superior just because they're physically stronger

You know, I'm quite big and I could easily get on top of many men (dirty westerners- stop giggling - not in THAT sense). Does that make me superior? Cool

112.       armegon
1872 posts
 24 May 2008 Sat 10:25 am

Quoting Daydreamer:

And that word...Using analogy to the example I gave (the substitution method) If I say 'I can X a rock' X can be replaced by both move and hit. A bit different from the beat word


Actually not different. You do not read Daydreamer(i began to believe nothing changes also if u read ). This word has over 100 meanings and there are also English translations/interpretation of verse which translates differently; see one interpretation below;

Quote:

In verse 4:34 we are told to Idribuuhun the women if they rebel against the society or family. So what can we idrib with women:

-We can idrib=hit the women.
-We can idrib=seperate from the women
-We can idrib=admonish them with examples
-We can idrib=have sex with them

So what is more logical in 4:34? We first read that we must talk to them, then leave them alone in the bedroom to show you are serious, and then... what? Hit them? Does that really make sense? Does that really convince them, or just make them afraid of you? Also what does rebellion mean here? Can the rebellion be determined by the man himself? Or must this be done by the State? Must we seperate from them?
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First of all, this verse does not refer to husband and wife, it uses the words Rijaal=men and Nisa=women in general.
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So the infamous verse 4:34 is not about husband and wife relationship at all. It is about the roles of men and women which they must perform in society
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Quoting Daydreamer:

Armegon will applaud her findings and find a verse from the bible talking about killing or the like. He will ignore the fact that no custom of violence is justified in bible. Oh, are we in the middle ages again?


Haha, thats what you do with ur partners all the time here , . Find a video or any document , turn it into religious or kind of debate, applaud eachother and make fun of other people’s belief. Its my first time here posting a verse from bible, on the contrary you and your fellow friends posting verses continually. I guess you also think all men in east beating their wifes and the videos are the proof, you really funny …

113.       Daydreamer
3743 posts
 24 May 2008 Sat 11:27 am

I think we're talking about two different things here. I was talking about what Alameda said about the word used in the video. In the context of the video only the word beat would suit logically.

In the passage you used I see no mention of bruising, face or breaking bones. So, I assume it's not the same thing we're discussing. Still, I would love you to quote me a passage about what men's punishment is if he rebels against family or society.

I'm sorry if you find what I write a religious debate. It is never intended to be this way. I am an Atheist so if I were to have religious debates I'd rather be commenting on the silliness of believing in God (any god for that matter) than on Islam only. What I have been discussing here is the social impact of societies with Islam as dominant religion. Many a time I have emphasised that the impact stems from specific way of interpretation rather than verbatim following of religious documents. Still, what you do is to try to show me I am wrong by interpreting verses. So, let's be brief and answer a few quick Yes-No questions

1. Is it true that women in some Arab countries have problems if they leave the house without male company?
2. Is it true that there are still events of honour killing among people who are Muslims?
3. Is it probable that in Lebanon police will not intervene in case of domestic violence?
4. Do Muslims ever interpret Quran in different way? Can it result in justifying violence against women?
5. Do all Muslim women have the right (in practice, NOT theory) to reject a husband/veto another marriage of her husband?
6. Is adultery punished in some Muslim countries?
7. Is it legally forbidden to convert to a religion other than Islam in some countries?

You don't have to answer in writing, because if you do, you will have to lie to save your face. And I'm not asking you about what Quran says about the above. I am asking about what reality looks like in predominantly Muslim countries. Also, I don't state that it is the case in Muslim countries or that it's true about all Muslims. The questions concern a trend, something more than individual cases.

To save you the usual 'Christianity is worse' I answered the same questions for countries most Muslims consider predominantly Christian

1. Is it true that women in some western countries have problems if they leave the house without male company?

NO

2. Is it true that there are still events of honour killing among people in the west?
NO
3. Is it probable that in western countries police will not intervene in case of domestic violence?
NO
4. Do Christians ever interpret Bible in different way?
YES
Can it result in justifying violence against women?
NO
5. Do all Christian women have the right (in practice, NOT theory) to reject a husband/veto another marriage of her husband?
YES
6. Is adultery punished in some Christian countries?
NO
7. Is it legally forbidden to convert to a religion other than Christianity in some countries?
NO

It amuses me to read how you believe I simplify things. No, I don't believe all men in the east beat their wives. I do believe some women actually beat their husbands, or control them rather than the other way around. I am more than well aware that some Muslim women are wonderful, self-conscious females who know what they want, have the necessary education and will not let themselves be dominated by men just because of their gender. Also, I see a huge difference between countries like Egypt or Turkey and countries with more radical approach like Saudi Arabia. However, what always surprises me is how eager are Muslims to defend those who break basic human rights just because they believe it saves the face of their religion.

114.       zhang ziyi
205 posts
 26 May 2008 Mon 01:20 am

I have just read that over the past 15 years more than 1000 women were stoned to death in Iran.
Very shocking, it is just a tip of an ice-berg, I don't know how many were executed by other types of CP.
Source: The stoning of Soraya M. by Freidoune Sahebjam

115.       armegon
1872 posts
 26 May 2008 Mon 02:33 am

Quoting Daydreamer:

I think we're talking about two different things here. I was talking about what Alameda said about the word used in the video. In the context of the video only the word beat would suit logically.


I didnt watch the video so there is a misunderstanding, i thought post was adresssed to me.

Quoting Daydreamer:

Still, I would love you to quote me a passage about what men's punishment is if he rebels against family or society.


There is no meaning of physical punishment in that interpretation, the following verse advices both to reconcile, same said for both to reconcile if women expreience ill-treatment from men(4:128).
Look Dd, when u say problem is religious leaders or using their way of Islam to rule a country, using religion for politics or ignorance, i will completely agree but when u say problem is Islam, i completely disagree thats why we argue since the beginning. Im not the supporter of so-called Islamic states which uses sheria law to rule country , depends 90% on hadiths and traditions. Thats the major reason Mustafa Kemal forbid all cults(still causes problems in Türkiye),seperate state from religion and changed the regime into Republic. Btw some of the Arabic states are still also monarchy. Each have different laws, differs from country to country mostly based on traditions which were made holy.
As for ur questions, i dont know the laws of Arab countries exactly to explain, each are different so i cant reply ur questions in general. But i can clearly say that women(people) have no proper rights in them, so this crooked system should be changed, thats what im saying from the beginning. I think it is clear now.

Quoting Daydreamer:

However, what always surprises me is how eager are Muslims to defend those who break basic human rights just because they believe it saves the face of their religion.


Noone defend them but when people realize the intention behind them and when it turns out to degrade Islam propogand rather than human-rights, of course people also react to this.

116.       Daydreamer
3743 posts
 26 May 2008 Mon 11:18 am

Quoting armegon:


Look Dd, when u say problem is religious leaders or using their way of Islam to rule a country, using religion for politics or ignorance, i will completely agree but when u say problem is Islam, i completely disagree thats why we argue since the beginning.



Then actually we have nothing to argue about as I think exactly the same way! I've always said that it is how religion is abused that results in problems. To me, the world would be a better place without religions, but it's just my opinion and I neither expect people to agree with me nor am I interested in arguing about it.

What has been commented on so many times is how Islam is used , like you said, for politics or ignorance, not that Islam is evil per se.

It took us a while but I'm glad we finally understood each other's positions on this subject

117.       magnadea
0 posts
 26 May 2008 Mon 01:10 pm

Quoting Daydreamer:

To me, the world would be a better place without religions



+100000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000

118.       SuiGeneris
3922 posts
 26 May 2008 Mon 01:14 pm

Quoting magnadea:

Quoting Daydreamer:

To me, the world would be a better place without religions



+100000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000



I think the world would be a better place without human beings!!!

119.       magnadea
0 posts
 26 May 2008 Mon 01:15 pm

Quoting SuiGeneris:

I think the world would be a better place without human beings!!!



Except me

120.       SuiGeneris
3922 posts
 26 May 2008 Mon 01:17 pm

Quoting magnadea:

Quoting SuiGeneris:

I think the world would be a better place without human beings!!!



Except me



No exceptions!!! we are all the same!!

selfish! polluting! eating! pissing!

we dont deserve this beautiful world i guess!!

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