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Recommend your dudu!
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18 Jun 2008 Wed 01:33 am |
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Quoting alameda: I don't know if you have thought about it, but it also does not exactly paint a nice picture of foriegn women who visit Turkey. It makes those women look like a bunch of "love starved, desparate women".
It makes it easier for those who may be inclined to take advantage of women to do so. It certainly does not foster respect. |
 no don't spend much time thinking about things like that
women want to act sex starved and desparate, dudu's want to service them
match made in heaven
I was just having a laugh
I apologize to all sex starved, desparate women and dudu's all over the world
however from reading some posts in tc... some of these girls fall in love with these guys.. who take advantage of the situation
now sleep well I apologize again I will delete my account immediately
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18 Jun 2008 Wed 01:33 am |
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Quoting alameda: You know this is a really stupid thread. How would you like it if someone started a thread..."Recommend your(insert European, American, or whatever) Bimbo"? |
I am not sure what it is you are talking about here. Is it wrong to poke fun at men who take advantage of women? Who sleep with multiple women every day and lie to each one of them about love/money/sex.... etc etc.
The 'bimbo' thing is far more offensive because it is making fun of an oppressed group (especially when we are talking about a sexually oppressed and disrespected/degraded by men group).
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18 Jun 2008 Wed 01:36 am |
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Quoting catwoman: but I agree with the rest of what you said.  |
Time must stop,history must write it down,a moment of silence....!
cat...that is A FİRST lollllllll 
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18 Jun 2008 Wed 01:40 am |
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Quoting silversong: I will delete my account immediately |
!!!!!!!!!!!
For THAT ?! 
Tell me that İS a joke !
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18 Jun 2008 Wed 01:43 am |
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Quoting catwoman: Quoting alameda: You know this is a really stupid thread. How would you like it if someone started a thread..."Recommend your(insert European, American, or whatever) Bimbo"? |
I am not sure what it is you are talking about here. Is it wrong to poke fun at men who take advantage of women? Who sleep with multiple women every day and lie to each one of them about love/money/sex.... etc etc.
The 'bimbo' thing is far more offensive because it is making fun of an oppressed group (especially when we are talking about a sexually oppressed and disrespected/degraded by men group). |
So what do you think these poor men are? They are also desperate. You are making fun of another group who are probably very poor and uneducated. Many of them are from villages where sex is not that avilable either. They are like children in a candy shop and they are using what they have.
And to read some of the comments here, the women are taking advantage of the men too. They just want more bang for the buck. They don't feel they got their money's worth.
The comments do not reflect well on foreign women who visit, thus it perpetuates the whole thing.
As for Bimbos, they have been taking advantage of wealthier men for a very long time....wow...liberation...now a bunch of male bimbos.
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18 Jun 2008 Wed 02:12 am |
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Fluffy bunnies anyone?? Guaranteed non-controversial 
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18 Jun 2008 Wed 03:26 am |
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Quoting alameda: So what do you think these poor men are? They are also desperate. You are making fun of another group who are probably very poor and uneducated. Many of them are from villages where sex is not that avilable either. They are like children in a candy shop and they are using what they have.
And to read some of the comments here, the women are taking advantage of the men too. They just want more bang for the buck. They don't feel they got their money's worth.
The comments do not reflect well on foreign women who visit, thus it perpetuates the whole thing.
As for Bimbos, they have been taking advantage of wealthier men for a very long time....wow...liberation...now a bunch of male bimbos. |
Nothing speculative, generalizing or explicitly negative has been said about these guys though. All that's been said was that they lie, ask for money, sleep around... which are facts. It is especially bad because it's yet another instance where men cheat women and use them for sex.
Nobody said anything generalizing in terms of who these guys are. Some are poor, some are uneducated, some are plain assholes. In any case, they are conscious about what they do. I never said that there's something wrong with men having sex with consenting women, the problem here is that these men explicitly and pre-meditatively lie. Poverty or any other relative morality don't justify or excuse this kind of behavior. The least they deserve is to be made fun of.
When it comes to women using men, cheating on them, stealing their money, manipulating their honest, good feelings - I have as little respect for such women as I do for this kind of men.
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18 Jun 2008 Wed 03:38 am |
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That is also generalization
We cant talk about all men who work in resorts and condemn them of that too
As you see we know those stories from women at TLC and the experiences they have or had
And i dont think they represent high percentege from the number of the men working at resorts so we can take it as a general rule
So actually its not fair also to judge all the category of men working at the resorts from few people's personal experiences !
İf you meant that the bf of member x is fooling her,and y bf is cheater ...ect
Then yes, i agree with you
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18 Jun 2008 Wed 03:51 am |
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Quoting CANLI: That is also generalization
We cant talk about all men who work in resorts and condemn them of that too
As you see we know those stories from women at TLC and the experiences they have or had
And i dont think they represent high percentege from the number of the men working at resorts so we can take it as a general rule
So actually its not fair also to judge all the category of men working at the resorts from few people's personal experiences !
İf you meant that the bf of member x is fooling her,and y bf is cheater ...ect
Then yes, i agree with you |
True, you make a good point  But, I think it is clear that we only talk about 'dudus' - resort workers who are sleeping around and using women by emotional manipulation and lies. It's absolutely true that not all of them are like that.
How do you recommend that we should talk about this specific kind of men?
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18 Jun 2008 Wed 09:35 am |
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Why should Turks be offended by people laughing at con artists? I believe they get ashamed by the fact that there are Turks abusing women. There's nothing wrong about joking at those guys. Too bad I can't chip in as I have no experience with Dudus - apparently resort workers have a thing for Brits or Americans only 
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