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Why lots of english people dont trust turkish
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1.       fallenangel
12 posts
 25 Jun 2008 Wed 01:56 am

Hi, Im married to a turkish guy, Who i love with all my heart. But i now know why so many english people dont trust turkish people!! My husband is still in turkey,Im in england. We are fighting for a visa so we can be together. But this is very hard for us both, I took out a loan so my husband could sell silver on ebay,Everything was great,we slod very well. But he went into partnership with a friend of his,Who ended up oweing us thousands of pounds, and now wont pay.
My husband ended the partnership, But he wanted to open a shop,But we didnt have all the money we needed as his friend still owed us lots of money,(but my husband wont let me contact his friend for the money,as said his friend would lie,about him and the money) So again i took out a loan. my husband got a shop and we waited for the loan money, so he could pay the rent on the shop. He did all the shop out, still the bank said didnt put money into my account. Now my husband has left the shop, He wont take my calls or reply to my txt or email, All my friends said he only used me for money??? ( I no this is not true, He loves me, but is mad we had to leave the shop)
Tell me what you all think about my situation??
Do you think im right or my friends.
I would love to know your thoughts. please look at my pics of me and my husband befor you makeup your mind.
Im sure you will see how much im right,and how in love we are.
fallenangel

2.       alameda
3499 posts
 25 Jun 2008 Wed 05:03 am

You know, it's hard for anyone who doesn't know the whole situation to give an opinion on this.

Can you go visit him to get a feeling of what is going on? Have you ever visited his family in person?

I hope everything turns out OK. Good luck.

3.       KeithL
1455 posts
 25 Jun 2008 Wed 06:06 am

Quoting alameda:

You know, it's hard for anyone who doesn't know the whole situation to give an opinion on this.

Can you go visit him to get a feeling of what is going on? Have you ever visited his family in person?

I hope everything turns out OK. Good luck.



Excellent Advice. I coudn't add anything more....

4.       silversong
278 posts
 25 Jun 2008 Wed 10:33 am

Quoting fallenangel:

Now my husband has left the shop, He wont take my calls or reply to my txt or email, All my friends said he only used me for money??? ( I no this is not true, He loves me, but is mad we had to leave the shop)
Tell me what you all think about my situation??
are.
fallenangel



I dont understand why he is mad with you, and wont return your calls. Marriage is a partnership why should the money be your responsibility?

and one thing i really dont understand... what does money have to do with love??????

If he truly loves you then the money should not be important..... Im sure you can figure out the answer without anyones help
good luck

5.       catwoman
8933 posts
 25 Jun 2008 Wed 02:35 pm

I agree with Silversong, it seems like there must be more going on there. It just doesn't make sense why he would leave you because the bank didn't give you the money. Especially that you are married. Is he still going to come to the UK?

I think that all you can do is as Alameda suggested... find out what is going on there, but I would say that if he loves you, you shouldn't be the only one trying to make the relationship work.

Good luck, I hope you are feeling ok...

6.       Elisabeth
5732 posts
 25 Jun 2008 Wed 07:26 pm

Why would he open a shop in Turkey if he is waiting for a Visa to the UK? I would definately go and try to talk to him face to face. It is ridiculous and childish that he will not talk to you. I would be so furious.

Hope it all works out for you.

7.       catwoman
8933 posts
 26 Jun 2008 Thu 08:29 am

Quoting Elisabeth:

Why would he open a shop in Turkey if he is waiting for a Visa to the UK? I would definately go and try to talk to him face to face. It is ridiculous and childish that he will not talk to you. I would be so furious.

Hope it all works out for you.


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8.       libralady
5152 posts
 26 Jun 2008 Thu 02:01 pm

There is so much deja vu with this story. You should take a look at the Turkish Loverats site, it is littered with exactly this.

Why oh why do women hand over money to someone they hardly know (yes you are married but how long for?) without even seeing the shop, or the "friend". Why did you need a loan to "sell" silver on Ebay?

It is all very suspicious to me. I would have to go and see for myself what is going on. Do either of you speak each others language? If not I would probably hire an interpreter to.

I am sorry for being so cynical and negative, but I do have sympathy for you and I hope you resolve it.

9.       girleegirl
5065 posts
 27 Jun 2008 Fri 08:40 am

If it turns out that your friends are right then you are better off finding out now and moving past this.
I can't for the life of me think of any valid reason a husband would refuse to take his wife's call but I wish you the best of luck.
Just remember, relationships don't define who we are. Stay strong!

10.       lady in red
6947 posts
 27 Jun 2008 Fri 08:25 pm

I have just deleted Rocco Siffredi's post as it was insulting and not acceptable. (Genuida - sorry deleted yours too as it contained the quote) This lady didn't ask for or deserve this type of comment.

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