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A Turkish husband
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20 Aug 2008 Wed 10:01 pm |
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I feel sorry for you when you say you can´t do many things you want because you are a girl and because of the culture/country you live in but I really have to laugh when I read that sentence in capitals. Faithful? Sorry dear, only on this forum there are at least dozens of women who can tell you different stories.
AsI said nobody is an angel. bad men have existed from all over the world. All I meant is that Turkish guys seem very lovely and nice, and to be honest majority of men are the same. But with a Turkish guy I´ll be able to teach my sons and daughters very good, to bring them up without any problems with a nationality sufferings. I want to see my daughter speaks more than 4 languages, to learn like boys. I want to do something special for them. I don´t want to put her in prison for good as I live now. I couldn´t do any thing I wished to do. And now I´m 23 years old and I´m still doing nothing for the society. I feel I´m nothing, no advantage from me.
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20 Aug 2008 Wed 10:01 pm |
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It has nothing to do with watching TV coz I have no idea about noor, I don´t watch TV it´s not my hobby or something. Second of all I believe that as good Turkish guys have existed, bad Turkish men have existed as well. Yes I live in Saudi Arabia but my mother country id Yemen. I born here and I think like it´s impossible to get married to Saudi guy. I don´t want my daughters and my sons suffer from the culture. Women can´t drive and can´t work as men. Also Saudi men have enjoyed getting married million times, he will cheat me and he will leave me after 10 years. OK THEN? I´M NOT AN ANIMAL. A Turkish guy maybe will make mistakes as any person in this life. I posted my thread to ask about specific things not to fight. Sorry.
TURKISH MEN ARE FAITHFUL AND KIND, BUT NAYBE SOME SAUDI MEN HERE GOT JEALOUS OF LOVELY TURKISH GUYS.
I don´t blame you for wanting to get the heck out of Saudi..I would too. Just make sure you choose the right Turkish guy.. There are cheats even in Turkey! But it sounds like you have better opportunities in Turkey than in Saudi. Just go light on the perfume. (wink)
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20 Aug 2008 Wed 10:06 pm |
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I don´t blame you for wanting to get the heck out of Saudi..I would too. Just make sure you choose the right Turkish guy.. There are cheats even in Turkey! But it sounds like you have better opportunities in Turkey than in Saudi. Just go light on the perfume. (wink)
heheh perfume (wink) i get it!! 
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20 Aug 2008 Wed 10:08 pm |
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I don´t blame you for wanting to get the heck out of Saudi..I would too. Just make sure you choose the right Turkish guy.. There are cheats even in Turkey! But it sounds like you have better opportunities in Turkey than in Saudi. Just go light on the perfume. (wink)
Yes dear, and this is what I meant. He should be good and kind. My eyes aren´t blind. Thank u for ur interacting.
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20 Aug 2008 Wed 10:12 pm |
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Yes dear, and this is what I meant. He should be good and kind. My eyes aren´t blind. Thank u for ur interacting.
FWIW, I knew one Yemani woman who married a Turk. It went well, in as much as she was happy.
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20 Aug 2008 Wed 10:56 pm |
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Thanks Armegon but I´ll call you next time I need help getting under that bus
Sorry PT, if i drive you into a bad situation, just thought your comment fits to this thread, forgive me plz.
Yes I live in Saudi Arabia but my mother country id Yemen. I born here and I think like it´s impossible to get married to Saudi guy. I don´t want my daughters and my sons suffer from the culture. Women can´t drive and can´t work as men. Also Saudi men have enjoyed getting married million times, he will cheat me and he will leave me after 10 years.
I understand you, im also living in Al-Khobar/KSA temporarily because of my job, and i witnessed this crooked system in KSA. Turkia is far more better place to live but your future Turkish husband canditate need to have regular satisfactory salary if you both want to live in Turkia, because Turkia is more expensive than KSA. Select your man carefully considering some useful advices here.
Please tell me where I said anything about Turkish men that was unkind? I was stating a reality that there are good and bad men EVERYWHERE. I´m sorry I don´t believe that turkish men are the ONLY manly men, smart, kind, gentle men out there. No offense handsom...
It was just a general comment, not adressed to you. And as always also in this thread, a girl asking some questions about marriage with Turkish guys but people here immediately begin to tease with thread owner instead of answering her questions, she just want her questions answered mostly but questioning starts though its none of us business. And also nobody says Turkish men are the onlies you mentioned, just respect the thread owner even she/he is naive. I think an advice is enough besides the answers to her questions.
Excuse me for finding it odd that someone posts it´s their DREAM to want to marry only a Turkish man because of these reasons. To me it suggests a LACK OF EXPERIENCE and single minded. If you were to say I want to marry someone within my own religion, I understand this.
Simply thats non of your business, she does not have to give a reasonable explanation why she want to marry a Turkish guy.
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20 Aug 2008 Wed 11:11 pm |
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Thanks Armegon but I´ll call you next time I need help getting under that bus
It was just a general comment, not adressed to you. And as always also in this thread, a girl asking some questions about marriage with Turkish guys but people here immediately begin to tease with thread owner instead of answering her questions, she just want her questions answered mostly but questioning starts though its none of us business. And also nobody says Turkish men are the onlies you mentioned, just respect the thread owner even she/he is naive. I think an advice is enough besides the answers to her questions.
Excuse me for finding it odd that someone posts it´s their DREAM to want to marry only a Turkish man because of these reasons. To me it suggests a LACK OF EXPERIENCE and single minded. If you were to say I want to marry someone within my own religion, I understand this.
Simply thats non of your business, she does not have to give a reasonable explanation why she want to marry a Turkish guy.
just respect the thread owner even she/he is naive
What do u mean by that? Am I naive coz I asked about the details about Turkish culture or its men? I think it´s the effect of ur life in Saudi Arabia.
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20 Aug 2008 Wed 11:18 pm |
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Sorry, if i offended you, that was not i want to say, i mean to say "if you think he/she is naive", that was also a general comment...
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20 Aug 2008 Wed 11:34 pm |
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I realize this now, no offense taken.
No , I´m not offended, I just wanted to clarify. Thanks
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20 Aug 2008 Wed 11:41 pm |
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Good men? Handsome AND kind AND smart AND gentle at the same time? Really? Where? The only few guys I´ve ever met with all these qualities already had boyfriends..... 
Good one!! (and so true!)
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21 Aug 2008 Thu 12:16 am |
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İ find myself agree with most that have been said here
Just take care,and put your hopes so high,and remember that,
Turkish men...STİLL men
They are not angels dear,so just be careful or else you will find yourself running from a hell you are living in made by the society,to another hell you made it by yourself
Open your eyes as many girls here adviced you,and remember to judge a man from his behaviour,from his acts,not just from his words
Best of luck in making your dream come true 
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