Hi friends,  i wonder if there´s any turkish girl in this forum or, at least, someone who knows them deeply or almost, the thing is that i´m dating a turkish girl, i m really interested in her but, she doesnt seem to be taking me serious so far. i might think that the language is one of the reasons why we cant communicate well but, also, she cheated on me TWICE !! and later came back saying how much she loves me and she doesnt want to loose me, ETC.

Anyway, i m doing my best not to loose my feelings about her, so noone can say i didnt try it at all.........

I dont know if there´s too much difference between our cultures, i m a latinguy by the way, and maybe that s the reason she doesnt want to take me serious or, i dont know, im blank about this topic, i just want some advice about how to deal with her.

thanx for ur time.

You cant really judge all turkish girls on one girl!!! and u cant ask ppl about turkish girls cause girls all over the world will have different personalaties! so you could ask for advice about what to do but you cant really generalize about all girls just like you just cant generalize about all turkish men as we said on another thread!

thanx for ur reply doudi, but as u can see in my post, i´m not generalizing, i know i can´t do so.

i m just saying i dont know anything ´bout them or their culture, and maybe there´s something i need to know to understand this particular girl better.  that´s why i explained a little about her behaviour towards me, so the person who gently wants to advice me -or give any clue- knows who i´m dealing with.  i´ve dated nice and not so nice girls, but wherever they went from, i tried always to learn about their cultures -i think someone who really cares should do so in order to understand or make the relationship better -

again, thanx for any clue anyone can give me.

Is it possible that there are some female Dudu´s about.

oh im sorry dan, i didnt mean to atack you or anything, and youre completely right, you have to know her culture and stuff, anyway good luck in your relationship!

 well we are always going on about equality and all that so why not

Why would something in her culture explain her cheating? Is this acceptable in any culture? She´s cheated on you twice! Is there a message there perhaps?

Thanx doudi  Another thing i just remembered,  when talking -or trying to talk- ´bout us, she mentioned something about "helal". i was trying to explain few things ´bout my feelings to her and she laughed and said "not helal"

Any clue?? thanx

thanx sonunda, maybe i´m trying to look for water in the desert-- anyway, i don´t want to give up without trying my best..

Wouldn´t you prefer someone who hadn´t cheated on you though? It´s your call.  Good luck anyway.