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about turkish girls ??
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20.       alameda
3499 posts
 09 Sep 2008 Tue 08:41 pm

 

Quoting aneczkabubu

 I am sorry, but let me clearify thisfor you a bit. "Haram" means serious sin which God in the Quran forbides and a preson will be puniched for this in this life or hereafter. "Halal" , on the other hand means the opposite so it is what Allah wants us to do, meaning avoiding evils things which brings one closer to God and makes him a better beliverwith true faith. 

P.S. I do not know what is your belief, but you have to learn more anout her religion  as well. Good Luck.

 

 Actually, helal does not mean something that Allah wants us to do. It means it is something permitted. There are degrees of helal, the lowest being makruh, but permitted. For instance, divorce is helal, but mekruh.

21.       doudi94
845 posts
 09 Sep 2008 Tue 10:11 pm

 

Quoting aneczkabubu

 I am sorry, but let me clearify thisfor you a bit. "Haram" means serious sin which God in the Quran forbides and a preson will be puniched for this in this life or hereafter. "Halal" , on the other hand means the opposite so it is what Allah wants us to do, meaning avoiding evils things which brings one closer to God and makes him a better beliverwith true faith. 

P.S. I do not know what is your belief, but you have to learn more anout her religion  as well. Good Luck.

 

lol, actualy my religion is the same as hers

22.       Jaymi
22 posts
 10 Sep 2008 Wed 06:40 am

 

Quoting mltm

I cannot generalize all girls depending just on nationality, but it´s very rare, much rarer than boys that turkish girls date with a foreign guy. It´s not impossible, there are some examples, I saw a few girls who got married to a foreign guy and the guys did not even change their religion, however they were free girls, I mean not religious, drinking alcohol and working girls who got high education as well. Otherwise turkish girls often prefer turkish boys to marry, even being muslim is not enough. So, even if she likes and loves you, she might not prefer to stay with you, because often for turkish girls marriage is the biggest goal in their lives and a serious relationship should lead to marriage,  and they usually want to date with a potential husband. She tries a lot of men to pick the best one among them maybe and she cannot see you as a potential husband. So, she thinks, you are not worth her time and efforts.

 

But, they are just my assumptions, I just said one of the possible reasons. Maybe the reason is totally different. We do not know anything about this girl. Maybe she just likes dating with men. Where is this girl,  in Turkey or in a foreign country?

 

In everything that I have read online, it says that Turkish girls are the quiet and loyal type.. My boyfriend has told me that his last three relationships ended because the girl cheated on him.  I am kind of confused on this.. That is done here (the USA) alot by both.. but it seems in reading on here, that Turkish girls are not as nice as they seem.  Just an opinion..  I have only met one Turkish girl and that is my boyfriends sister.. she is of course.. very sweet.

23.       Daydreamer
3743 posts
 10 Sep 2008 Wed 10:32 am

Why would Turkish girls be any different from American ones? A lot of Turkish girls are well educated, career-oriented and of high self-esteem. They don´t follow the hillbilly´s daughter stereotype where woman´s only dream is to be married by 20 and have children. Self conscious Turkish gals are no different from Western ones

24.       catwoman
8933 posts
 10 Sep 2008 Wed 03:14 pm

 

Quoting Daydreamer

Why would Turkish girls be any different from American ones? A lot of Turkish girls are well educated, career-oriented and of high self-esteem. They don´t follow the hillbilly´s daughter stereotype where woman´s only dream is to be married by 20 and have children. Self conscious Turkish gals are no different from Western ones

 

I completely agree with DD. Turkish women are no different then any other women, there are good and bad ones. What I have noticed is that there are more Turkish submissive women then I have met American ones, but I have also met many different Turkish women - strong radical feminists, highly educated, independent ones and some manipulative, lazy ones. Overall, Turkish women pay a lot of attention to how they look (really not much different then anywhere else) - as they seem to be very much objectified by Turkish males.

25.       Jaymi
22 posts
 10 Sep 2008 Wed 06:13 pm

 

Quoting catwoman

I completely agree with DD. Turkish women are no different then any other women, there are good and bad ones. What I have noticed is that there are more Turkish submissive women then I have met American ones, but I have also met many different Turkish women - strong radical feminists, highly educated, independent ones and some manipulative, lazy ones. Overall, Turkish women pay a lot of attention to how they look (really not much different then anywhere else) - as they seem to be very much objectified by Turkish males.

 

 I think this is the same everywhere. There are some that are the intelligent, strong and independant type and also the lazy and manipulative types.. Women are objectified everywhere! What woman doesnt look at the model in the magazine and say I want to be like that!   My previous statement was about mltm´s quote that the girls there see many men to find one that the like the best.  I know that virginity is key there, but it seems everything else goes?

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