I must say littlebit of myself,Im 40 years old man  and have seen everything in my life.

very bad things and good times. I have 2 children boy 5 years and girl 13 years. Im in marriage now but I dont know what to do because im in loved in turkish lady!

Does your wife know?Is she okay with it?Im sorryto tell you this but dont you feel sorry for your wife?And your children you have a 13 year old daughter dontyou think shell ahte you for hurting her mother?I know , im as old as her and im sorry but if my dad did that i wouldnt really look up to him, or admire him,actually hell make me nevere want to get married and hate men and always be scared taht smthg like that would happen to me. BUT, its your choice, choose yourself or your family,but if you really love her.......i really cant say anything to big of a topic

IM very sorry,but this is only life. i HAVE BEEN 15 YEARS WIT HER AND SHE IS VERY GOD WIFE AND MOTHER! Sorry! But this is only life! Things somethimes going different than you  have those things in your mind! I have been marriage 15 years!

so because you married her for 15 yrs she s old news and you have to move on? So??If she isa  good wife and mother so i leave her because ive been "MARRIED FOR 15 YRS?" And afetr another 15 yrs will you get tired from your turkish lady? That really is no excuse and yes this is life and you made a choice to marry this women, and to stay with her, not to leave her so easily, because this is life we have to keep thing sfresh,out with the old and in with the new?really im spaeking here as your daughter, since i am as old her, this is whats probably going on in her mind. I guess youre right, some people choose to selfish in life, and some people take the consequences of their actions and choices, but please dont be amd at me, this is only an opinion, pkease dont forget about your kids, your wife see what they think?!?!How this will affect them? anyway like is aid this si obly an opinion and im sure many others will tell you different things, but in the end its between you and your concious.

Yes you are right! But if the systems is going wrong for years,I think Its better get divorce than try and try!

Doudi, I feel like embarassing you  more and say that you are TOO WISE for your age!!! Are all Egyptian women as mature and reasonable as the ones we have on this site!?

JKK, I think that if you are unhappy in your marriage and you tried to solve the problem, but couldn´t, then it´s fair to get a divorce and move on. It would be very unfair to cheat on your wife behind her back. But if you lost your feelings for her, I think she might not be happy in such a relationship anyway. Just be fair to her and don´t do anything behind her back, like I´m sure you wouldn´t want her to do anything behind YOUR back either!

HAHAHA if u knew me in real life you would never say that!me and wise wouldnever go in the same sentence (unless it was negative) but i do feel like ir eally matured this summer! Or maybe these situations never happen in real life so i never get a chance to be wise !!! this is such an honor for me! im gonna bookmarka this and show it to my friends , im sure theyll cahnge theirr opinions !!! but you are right shell probably not be hapy with him anyway so its better for the both of them,the problem is that hes  aguy,marriage is kinda easy, but she a lady!!and its probably ahrder to gat married agin at her age (especiually that she has children!!)anyway i dont think shell be looking for a rlationship for a long time!!

Hehehehehe, well, I am sure you´re a bright woman Doudi! And the fact that you can think so maturely is just amazing for your age! Or maybe I matured too late myself and I´m so amazed at other people!

Well.... I´m not sure where they are from (JKK I mean), but staying in a marriage out of pity for his wife that she wouldn´t be able to find another marriage is wrong and condescending. I think that people - men and women - should divorce when they are not happy and it should force the society to change, so that men and women finally have equal opportunities in the society. And the laws have to ensure that the man supports his children financially if he is not the primary care provider.

I think many women FEAR to be without a husband and FEAR to look for their own happiness, and our societies DO NOT help them to learn a healthier more self-esteemed way of living. BUT we, women, have to take life on and grow up and face the challenges. The society has to change, but also our own mentality has to change.

You mention the childrens,yeah,here in finland its very stupid system. If the woman says that the man using too much alcohol or even smokes,you cant see your chrilrens!! Today was one case in the newspaper!

But, I never said that my wife does not nows this system. She nows it all! Im not cheating her,never!!