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Hello friends
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23 Aug 2008 Sat 04:26 am |
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But, I never said that my wife does not nows this system. She nows it all! Im not cheating her,never!!
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23 Aug 2008 Sat 04:34 am |
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But, I never said that my wife does not nows this system. She nows it all! Im not cheating her,never!!
Well, I think in this case it is fair to get a divorce. I wish you and your family luck! 
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23 Aug 2008 Sat 04:35 am |
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Thank you very much!
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23 Aug 2008 Sat 04:58 am |
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I must say littlebit of myself,Im 40 years old man and have seen everything in my life.
very bad things and good times. I have 2 children boy 5 years and girl 13 years. Im in marriage now but I dont know what to do because im in loved in turkish lady!
If you are 40 years old, you should grow up! Do you think marriage is one long honeymoon? All marriages have good times and bad times. You have to work on it every day. Appreciate the good times and work on the bad times.
Now you say you are in love with a Turkish lady, so when you get tired of her, what are you going to do, "Fall" in love again? I´m sorry, but you sound like you are going through male menopause looking for the "thrill" of love instead of working on what you already have.
You have two children too. Divorce is a horrible thing to put children through. I would recommend you do everything possible to save your marriage.
Learn to be in love instead of "falling in love".
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23 Aug 2008 Sat 05:09 am |
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Wow, Alameda! Your post is pretty judgmental!!!  Not very kind of you at all!!!! 
Really, you are treating him like a child! Your tone is definitely inappropriate, even if you have a tinge of good advice.
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23 Aug 2008 Sat 06:40 am |
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Can I ask,how old are you? Can you say to me how I or people shoud do these things. Can you really????
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23 Aug 2008 Sat 07:09 am |
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Life is too short to stay in a marriage that´s not working. As far as your kids, yes it will be hard but kids are amazing they do adjust. I would never recommend to get divorced to anyone, because I do think it´s the easy way out. But if you have tried and tried and your not in love with that person anymore, it sounds like you may want to move on. But the worst thing you could do, is leave your wife for another women. You need to leave her for yourself and yourself only.
Every relationship goes through their honeymoon period and your love for this Turkish girl is the excitement your probably not getting from home being married 15 years. So just remember this excitement usually dwindles with every relationship.
Good luck with your decision.
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23 Aug 2008 Sat 07:17 am |
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If you are 40 years old, you should grow up! Do you think marriage is one long honeymoon? All marriages have good times and bad times. You have to work on it every day. Appreciate the good times and work on the bad times.
Now you say you are in love with a Turkish lady, so when you get tired of her, what are you going to do, "Fall" in love again? I´m sorry, but you sound like you are going through male menopause looking for the "thrill" of love instead of working on what you already have.
You have two children too. Divorce is a horrible thing to put children through. I would recommend you do everything possible to save your marriage.
Learn to be in love instead of "falling in love".
Talk about being harsh and unkind..
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23 Aug 2008 Sat 07:38 am |
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I Know. I have tried so many years! And now I found woman of my LIFE!
Life is too short to stay in a marriage that´s not working. As far as your kids, yes it will be hard but kids are amazing they do adjust. I would never recommend to get divorced to anyone, because I do think it´s the easy way out. But if you have tried and tried and your not in love with that person anymore, it sounds like you may want to move on. But the worst thing you could do, is leave your wife for another women. You need to leave her for yourself and yourself only.
Every relationship goes through their honeymoon period and your love for this Turkish girl is the excitement your probably not getting from home being married 15 years. So just remember this excitement usually dwindles with every relationship.
Good luck with your decision.
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23 Aug 2008 Sat 08:10 am |
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Like Dylan said Its better to burn out than faideaway!!!!
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23 Aug 2008 Sat 08:23 am |
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But the worst thing you could do, is leave your wife for another women. You need to leave her for yourself and yourself only.
I agree with this. I don´t think men are as strong as women. They seem to need someone to move on to before leaving a relationship. My friend calls them pram hoppers.
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