Dear TheHandsom,

Please return immediately.  I have nobody else to tease (lest they be offended) and there is no need to get angry over your deleted posts, because few people read them anyway!

Just come back otherwise I will be forced to join your harem

Yours sincerely,

TheAenigma

PLUS I named myself in your honour and I feel pretty stupid being "THE" aenigma if you are not around to balance things out

once i decided to leave TLC before and was going to ask admins to delete my account but he persuaded me to stay but but he is gone now Please come back

 Grrrrrrrrrrrrr yet ANOTHER reason for me to hate him

Come back here you coward so I can fight you!

I´m not sure if it´s of any help, but also I say: TheH come back!!! (Who else can I tease a little?)

 I am not sure....maybe if you lift his PM ban?

 His what?

Dear thehandsom;

How I miss your silly PMs....you didn´t even say goodbye. 

Please come back or I will be forced to take back the laptop, iPhone, iPod, the 25,000 British Sterling you insisted you needed to open your shop, the shoes I bought for you, and your mother´s artificial knee. 

If you come back, I promise I will let my ass get bigger.  Please don´t make me post a translation to text to you!!!

xox....

L.

While he´s not around I thought you might all be interested in this photo we had taken when we met up recently

(Don´t let him know I showed you!! 

Oh...is handsom missing? 

OMG the whole harem is here

i think he has gone to wales.

 Harem? Are YOU too in his harem?

(BTW are smileys that say ´you are crazy´ still allowed? Or are they subject to deletion as well?)

When a man is forced to delete his posts...it takes a great amount of pride away.  I hope thehandsom can recover and come back to us soon.  I already miss him..  don´t get jealous lis....

 +1000 - completely agree with you - but I think he may stay away for a while

 Just a small clarification,he decided to delete his own posts,none forced him nor suggested it.

So he was forced by his own decision if that is what you mean.

 Ã think he would like me for that

 Forcing and/or suggesting can both be done without words or violence.

 Yes, he physcially deleted his own posts...but what made him feel the need to? 

 Ohhh,im sorry,so i shouldnt delete any post of handsom ´specifically´ but others or else he would delete his posts and ...etc ?!

Many members here has posts deleted,i also had posts deleted,so we can delete anyone´s posts according to our judgement of course when needed,but not handsom ?!

Sorry,but handsom is same as any member here,and i saw that i should delete his post,he didnt accept it,and respond in that way,its his personal freedom.

Ouh

I should amend my thread then

Please come back from Wales TheHairy

(The welsh are scary) .....

 Wow....this is a total contradiction....he didn´t do what you asked and change his post....basically you threatened to delete it, so because he choose to delete it himself you say that was his freedom.  WOOWWWWW!!!  At this point any further arguement is pointless!

You are assuming a lot of things. I never said that handsome is special or that his posts unlike others should not be deleted but I think you are biased. You delete at random, not strictly according forum rules. (BTW This is my opinion!)

 For saying ´you really are paranoid about this´??  That´s what´s so unbelievable.  All the insults and swearwords that have been traded in the past in the forums and you think this is bad?? 

God you lot sound desperate, he is away for one day - just because he decided to delete some posts does not mean he will not be back, perhaps just needs to re-charge his batteries.............

 +1

she deleted my posts any time she wanted even without warnings meanwhile she left the equally insulting posts from my opponents, deleting just some after my complaint.

 Come or go...or whatever....I think most everyone has had some of their posts deleted at some time or another....and with no warning...I know I have.

 You naughty wolf, you!

Give him a break people... are you suddenly trying to baby a ´fragile´ soul? He´s an adult and he´s quite capable of his own decisions. If he doesn´t want to be here, he has the right to do so.

 It is called light hearted banter Catwoman!!!  (Or is that banned now?)

TheHandsom does the same when he thinks one of us has left for a while.

However, if you find it offensive, please delete

 OMG,i havent see all those...

Basically,i dont have to explain myself,or my reasons for deleting a post or not to anyone

But here...first.

Rule no.9

Personal attacks or insults directed towards other users will not be tolerated. Basically if you don´t have anything nice to say then just don´t say it all. If somebody posts an insulting comment do not reply to it. It will only result in starting a flame-war

Ý consider it personal attack and insult specially in handsom and armegon case,with their unfriendly history

And it also would lead to a flame war.

 The rule says,and what we used to do,is deleting the post without any explanation given,if you remember that what used to happen

And when/if members complains via pm´s then give the reasons

That happened with me more than one time as member

So instead we pm first ask to modify the troubled thing,that would be our first step

Ýf it hasnt been modified,yes we delete

Ý deleted his troubled post...he didnt like it and deleted all his posts...yes its his personal choice not my choice.

 Already replied to this above.

 Not because we had worest insults,swearwords,troubled posts,that would make it ok !

 When you post offensive post,and other replies,and the story ends..i dont interfere of course unless they were a swearwords

But when the story didnt end,at that time,i try to delete the troubled posts and leave the others

When you complained that i havent deleted your opponents other post,i had to delete all the posts,yours/his relevent to that discussion,if you had noticed that.

Not all your posts were deleted at first,but at the end,all irrelevant posts to the topic been deleted.

Ýts not a personal matter dear femmeous as you wish to put it,and with deleting the posts,mods around/admin be informed,and discussed also if can before deleting

Canli you are being very defensive.  I would almost say you were p******d

Actually no AE,in other cases,i wouldnt reply,and end it actually

But i guess its a good chance for other to know how things work,how do we think and try to judge things

What are the problems that we have here and in between us.

So hopfully there would be better understanding between us,mods/admins/members and not cause big problems later

Thats why i took the time to reply

 dont twist the facts, you first deleted mine as quick as possible leaving si++ posts untouched.

you deleted them just after i complained about being not fair. then you automatically deleted another post of mine.

anyway, i dont like your moderating.

yeah, its a good chance for all us to share how we feel about some mods.

When i first deleted your post,i informed admin,mods ,so i dont twist anything actually

And i left si++ posts untouched because i saw that you were offensive to him in a previous post and he replied

When you complained,i deleted all,yours ,his that not relevant to the topic

 Why am i not surprised

 CANLI

this is disgusting!

Do you have a problem with wolves? Wolves are nobel animals.

Of course you are entitled to your opinion!

 But ,i fail to understand you,do you want it to be dealt with on member´s own,an eye for an eye ,or do you want it under moderation ?!

Ý gave you both that space,and when things started getting out of hand,i deleted troubled one!

But anyway,you dont like my moderating !

well femmeous,that is another post will be deleted...sorry

Dont worry,other mods will see it and would judge if im being fair or not

Ýts not about me,i wouldnt have deleted,but other members

You can pm them saying what you like,but not here. 

Ý guess,i have explained myself enough at that matter,so further posts,or discussion would be via pm´s

 well this too much, i will boycott you, of course, its not a threat to you. but wanted to express waht i feel towards your work here.

 i dont think i wish pm-ing you.

i feel sick of a thought pm-ing you

 Have it your way,i have done my part already and pm´ed you.

 Actually I think this comment is rather patronising, and I think thehandsom has a strong enough character not to be too upset about a post deletion - it was his decision to delete the rest.  I would be seriously suprised if his pride had been dented one little bit.  It is more likely that he has moved on when the rest of you are dragging the issue on and on to the nth degree.

Handsom? Gone? Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

Dönsene bize lütfen yaaa

Darling you are back!!!!!!!

Ermmmm dont worry I was only joking about joining your harem....

 He´s gone again, I think you scared him of....

No, not back it seems

...

handsome, if u ever read this  kendine iyi bak kardeþim

Where he has gone?

I just saw him two nights ago i guess...

Anyway... leaving is not the solution mate!! come and fight

 Actually before you assume that I was being serious....I wasn´t.  I didn´t realize posting that we missed him was sending a negative message to him.  Usually, when I hear I was missed it actually makes me feel good.  I take it you don´t hear that often.

how many years have u guys been active in this forum? 10? 20?

 what did you really want to ask, zettea? whats your pain? tell us. does this thread sound silly to you? to me too.

10 years ago i was dreaming of having internet at home, what i only had was a dial up. there was nothing like broadband those ancient times, except maybe for isdn that only companies could afford.

20 years ago i was a secondary schoolgirl in USSR singing "soyuz nerushymy respublik svobodnyh" which means "unbreakable union of free republics", but the fate was different.

 20 years ago I was still a relatively young man and not so grumpy. 

 Hmmm.....

20 years ago I was.........

20 years younger!!! 

and I was self-centered, know-all sarcastic ten-year-old. What changed is that I´m not ten anymore

 +1

I have changed my mind.....Hairy, don´t you dare come back.  We are doing just fine without you.  Vineyards has agreed to be our new dudu and we are forwarding all of our gifts and money to him.  Please send the laptop I gave you to him as well.

 Elisabeth, you are now too cruel! Please let him keep his pink laptop.....

 +1

and my 11 dollars i sent last week, pls, send to vineyards

lisa, dont forget to enclose vineyards account, so that everybody would have an easy transfer.

 Only 11? Tssssss.....

 he asked me for 10 with too many zeros next, but i decided to send him actuallly one more dollar instead of those zeros ( i know zero means nothing, i learnt it at my math lessons).

At least vineyards won´t gum up our vacuum with his excessive hair!  Yeah!  Now we have something better to do with our Friday afternoons, no more waxing thehandsom in the CGG club house!

I reckon this is supposed to be funny.

 Come on!  We know you have a good sense of humour underneath that rather serious exterior!!

 Perhaps not..... 

no, im waiting for hairy ! no vineyards!

 OK Femme - naughty step NOW!!!   - interfering with other people´s posts is not allowed!!!

(I think lisa escaped and took the vodka with her - so I´m afraid you´re on your own!)

 Glad to know your not a sell out.....

 I think you will have problems.............laptops naaaaaaaaaaaaaaa?  I think Vineyard would prefer a case of Bordeaux............... clue is in the name

This is GENIUS!!!!!

Femme this is the funniest post ever!  I will always remember what you learned in your maths lesson in future

Just how many zeros did he ask for?

 ahahaha

that sapik asked for 10 and 5 more zeros

there are uneducated people in 21st century

 Did he say what currency? Try Turkish Lira, the old one.....

 where can i get turkish liras? the old ones?

 From an old Turk?

Maybe thehairy has some stashed under his bed 

 Antique shop maybe?

 from hairy to hairy?

you are  today? 

 yeah...

THEHAIRY, COME BACK!!!

Thank you All for this thread..