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RUMORS THAT TURKISH HUSBAND ARE VERY JEALOUS?
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90.       AlphaF
5677 posts
 19 Feb 2009 Thu 09:25 am

 

Quoting libralady

I am not going decry anything anyone has written here because that is your view and you are entitled to that view.  But please listen when some of us say we are not jealous.

 

I wrote how long I had been married and I have never been jealous.  If my husband wants to look at another woman, then so what?  If I want to look at another man, so what?  It does not mean we are going to run off with someone else, far from it, it makes our relationship stronger if we allow each other that stretch of freedom.

 

If I did not have my freedom (and him likewise) to the extent to which we allow, we would not have been married for so long.

There are many ways of keeping your freedom; marriying a Turkish man is not one of the smartest ways. 

 



Edited (2/19/2009) by AlphaF

91.       TheAenigma
5001 posts
 19 Feb 2009 Thu 10:51 am

 

Quoting AlphaF

 

There are many ways of keeping your freedom; marriying a Turkish man is not one of the smartest ways. 

 

 

 lol

92.       portokal
2516 posts
 19 Feb 2009 Thu 11:26 pm

 

Quoting alameda

 

 

Well, I think most Turkish men are very careful how they look at the boss´s wife. I think the term respectful is more like it. Flirting with the boss´s wife would not be a good career move, generally speaking..........

 

hmm... mind me, but i do not think flirting means only a direct glance thrown at a lady, maning an admirative appreciation of her curves and possible veleities as magna mater... flirting is a subtile and versatile art.

93.       portokal
2516 posts
 19 Feb 2009 Thu 11:34 pm

 

Quoting TheAenigma

 

 

 Wonderful!

 

yup... nice to chamble and throw opinions late in the evening on cosy subjects...

94.       mltm
3690 posts
 20 Feb 2009 Fri 01:27 am

 

 

I think the feeling of jealousy decreases by the years of relationship. The things that make you jealous become really the serious things, I guess if your husband starts to have an affair with a woman, then you will get jealous. Just an imaginative scenery.

 

Then there´s this sweet kind of jealousy, usually at the begining of a relationship. If he admires a woman, you wish it was you, and you tease him, nothing harmful. Just you´re looking for attention from his part. An initial phase in a relationship, where you´re hungry for love and attention.

 

Jealousy is not a pure emotion, it´s complexed, and consists of different emotions. It has degrees and types. A little bit of sun at the right dose gives fresshness and vitality to your skin, but too much of sun burns your skin. When it starts to annoy your partner or/and limits his/her life, then it becomes  harmful both to you and to your relationship.

 

But at the same time, at right times, and in right degrees, it makes the one you´re jealous of feel himself/herself loved and protected. And as well, being a little bit of jealous motivates you to improve yourself.

 

Lovers in the beginning of the relationships resembles little children. It´s real. Most of the attitudes and feelings of lovers show similarity with children. Like a little child getting jealous of his/her mother´s attention going to someone else, a lover do not want to share his lover. It does not mean that the child does not trust his/her mum, in the contrary she´s his/her most trusted.

 

"in my opinion", jealousy has always existed in romantic relationships even though we are not classified as a jealous person and as it has survived till today, it must have kind of benefits to the relationship.

 

 

95.       bod
5999 posts
 20 Feb 2009 Fri 01:30 am

 

Quoting mltm

 

 

I think the feeling of jealousy decreases by the years of relationship.

 

Any jealousy in a relationship means that it never starts for me.........

I find jealousy the biggest turn off of all!!!

96.       mltm
3690 posts
 20 Feb 2009 Fri 01:33 am

 

Quoting bod

 

 

Any jealousy in a relationship means that it never starts for me.........

I find jealousy the biggest turn off of all!!!

 

 well, I forgot to add that there may be exceptions

97.       portokal
2516 posts
 21 Feb 2009 Sat 10:48 pm

 

Quoting mltm

 

 

 well, I forgot to add that there may be exceptions

 

There is an interesting fact that actually jealousy, if expressed in certain ways makes us run off the fastest way possible. This feeling feeds games also, which can be benefic, but also malefi to a relationship, depending on the extent and intensity of the feeling. In certain conditions, I can agree with Bod. On the other hand, jealousy implies the desire tyo fight with possible competitors, but there are other ways, too...

98.       alameda
3499 posts
 21 Feb 2009 Sat 11:08 pm

 

Quoting bod

 

 

Any jealousy in a relationship means that it never starts for me.........

I find jealousy the biggest turn off of all!!!

 

Well, that gives credibility to the saying, "there is something for everyone....."

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