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how can i forget?
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14 Apr 2006 Fri 05:49 pm |
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how can i forget?
very hard to forget all the things we had...time..memories...things...
tell me is it so easy?
i wanna forget...is there anyone who helps me to teach the art of forgetting?
like in matrix movie...just click on the erase button...and deleted them all...can i do that...
if i do that?am i not unfaithfull...?
just your comments on this issue...
i am sure there also someone here to wanna get the key of forgetting part of the human brain...
so helping me means help the other ones who are still trying to find out the key
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14 Apr 2006 Fri 06:55 pm |
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I wont try to help you forget. If I knew the medicine, trust me, I would have used it already. But i want to show you how important it is to be able to remember 
'The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget.'
Thomas Szasz
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14 Apr 2006 Fri 07:47 pm |
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Quoting sophie:
'The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget.'
Thomas Szasz |
That is very true. I'm sure you belong to the wise, Goner
We all have things that we would like to erase from our brains. But the only thing you can do is learn from it sometimes. Then put the bad memories away in a dark dungeon somewhere in your head. And don't ask "what if" questions, because they have no answer.
Just try to look back to the good memories, because there always are plenty as well 
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14 Apr 2006 Fri 09:00 pm |
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Forgetting is impossible - even when you might think you have erased a memory - the slightest little thing can trigger your mind and you remember again...
Best advice is to hold on to the good memories - hopefully they outweigh the bad... and then to look forward - move on with hope in your heart for the next experience. 
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14 Apr 2006 Fri 11:21 pm |
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thanks for all your kind comments
i mean things between two people and one is always insisting on the other to forget....
so what would you do then?
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15 Apr 2006 Sat 05:54 am |
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Quoting Boop: Forgetting is impossible - even when you might think you have erased a memory - the slightest little thing can trigger your mind and you remember again...
Best advice is to hold on to the good memories - hopefully they outweigh the bad... and then to look forward - move on with hope in your heart for the next experience. |
yes even you rule and govern you memory it comes out in dreams  and whenever you are weak,like the times you lose your eyes in the distance,you again remember...better to remember the good things...or hate if you can
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15 Apr 2006 Sat 12:13 pm |
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Quoting goner: thanks for all your kind comments
i mean things between two people and one is always insisting on the other to forget....
so what would you do then? |
Nobody can force you to forget, when somebody is trying to persuade you to it means she or he is the one who wants to forget. I dont know your story but I know forgetting is never possible. With time memories may fade but you'll never get them out of your mind. The only thing you can do is to accept them as part of what created you. I know Nietzsche is not a very popular philosopher but he was right saying "What does not kill us makes us stronger."
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15 Apr 2006 Sat 12:20 pm |
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Ağlamak güzeldir.
Most people push pain and sorrowful memories away, and then call it 'forgetting'. But just like a smile needs to be smiled, a tear needs to be cried. Forgetting is not erasing something or someone from your mind. It is looking back in perspective, without falling back into that first fresh pain you had in the beginning. Forgetting must be remembering the good with a smile, remembering the bad with a lesson.
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18 Apr 2006 Tue 04:37 am |
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Edited (6/19/2010) by nana
Edited (6/19/2010) by nana
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18 Apr 2006 Tue 02:42 pm |
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Forgetting changes to person to person..If you have tight,strong brain most probably you cant forget smtgh easily maybe never..But you must be happy because of your strong brain..We must pray to Allah that we have strong brains..
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