“I actually look good,” Mr. Sodini wrote. “I dress good, am clean-shaven, bathe, touch of cologne — yet 30 million women rejected me — over an 18 or 25-year period. That is how I see it. Thirty million is my rough guesstimate of how many desirable single women there are.

“A man needs a woman for confidence. He gets a boost on the job, career, with other men, and everywhere else when he knows inside he has someone to spend the night with and who is also a friend.”

I guess one should be very tender and gentle when dealing with others.  If not out of compassion, perhaps for survival.  Sometimes people snap.

I think his being bald explains everything.

 It is not known how people dealt with this individual or many others that resort to this type of violence.  Many times, when friends are asked about these people in the aftermath, they say they never saw it coming, that everything seemed so normal.

These individuals live in their own little minds.  No matter what ayone else does, even when people are compassionate.........they see things differently.  They feel everyone is against them. 

Not having a girlfriend did not push this man into going in to a gym and opening fire on innocent people....his mental illness did.

I still insist that it`s all about his being bald.

I think your assumption is somewhat misleading, alameda.  Take the case of Ted Bundy.  He would pretent to be hurt and when a young girl would try to assist him (assuming they were trying to be kind), he would drag them into his van and later kill them.  I don´t think you have to be particularly mean or nice to people like this, they will percieve you as they see things and not necessarily see reality. 

Of course, you should always be kind to everyone.....even people you disagree with regularly, on the internet!

What a sick and demented story, BTW!  You just never know about people.

 Do I need to send you a wig along with your snowglobes??

thanks but I have a good amount of hair on my head, you can keep it for your husband.

 .........and landmines don´t explode until agitated in some way....

 Oh sweetie it doesn´t count as "head hair" when you´ve shaved it off your back and glued it to your head. 

you should tell this to your husband gg, not me . this is not a my husband sucks club.