you should tell this to your husband gg, not me . this is not a my husband sucks club.

 So, are you saying that the victims are to blame? 

 Yes, I agree with much of what you say.  Each case is unique.  Ted Bundy was in a whole other class.  He was a psychopath.

"In 1965, Bundy graduated from Woodrow Wilson High. Awarded a scholarship by the University of Puget Sound (UPS), he began that fall taking courses in psychology and Oriental studies. After two semesters at UPS, he decided to transfer to Seattle´s University of Washington (UW).

While he was a university student, Bundy worked as a grocery bagger and shelf-stocker at a Seattle Safeway store on Queen Anne Hill, as well as other odd jobs. As part of his course of studies in psychology, he would later work as a night-shift volunteer at Seattle´s Suicide Hot Line, a suicide crisis center that served the greater Seattle metropolitan and suburban areas. He met and worked alongside former Seattle policewoman and fledgling crime writer Ann Rule, who would later write a biography of Bundy and his crimes, The Stranger Beside Me."

I  think we should step lightly. Sometimes we do not really understand how to be kind.  We stomp through the forrest with thick boots tramping through the brush, breaking branches (and life contained in it) underneath our feet. 

All I´m saying is maybe if we "Try a little tenderness" it can help.

 ????...............how on earth did you come to that conclusion?????...............no my dear, there is a whole chain of events leading to different results...each important in it´s own way.

 I find it absolutely hysterical that Elisabeth and I made nearly identical comments and yet you just can´t bear to tell me that you agree with anything I said.  I wonder if doing so would cause your head to explode

 My comments are far better written than yours!  How dare  you say they are identical!!! 

Yours are better written because you are lazy and sit in front of you computer playing all day and have time to draft and edit and use your thesarus. 

I, on the other hand, have to dash in and out and try to get my point across in a quick, yet thoughtful, insightful and eloquent manner. 

This is the gym I belong to, however in a different state.  I know how the rooms are set up and I can only imagine how these people felt.I agree with GG...see I said you first   AND Lis.   I´m wondering why he couldn´t find somebody...Isn´t there a someone for everyone? I mean even if this person wasn´t great looking..there are so many woman who are desperately seeking a man as a man seeking a woman.  It sounds like his excuse to rationalize his means of killing in the end.

OFFFF! You always agree with GG! 

Anyway, good point.  Could it be that this guy gave off a "creepy stalker vibe" that no one wanted to be nice to him?  I don´t think any amount of kindness would have stopped him.  When you make up your mind to kill someone, I don´t think there is a point where you say, "well, if this person is nice to me, I will just go home and not kill anyone tonight."

 I have always liked you teas