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10.       Daydreamer
3743 posts
 04 Dec 2009 Fri 10:18 pm

 

Quoting catwoman

 

 

Yeah, and you´re obsessed with the pro-porn campaign. {#emotions_dlg.you_crazy}  Are you actually serious about this question? I think you´re too intelligent to ask this... as well as the rest of them.

 

Nope, I´m not on a pro-porn campaign. I´m simply NOT against porn. It should be up to an adult person whether or not s/he wants to watch other adult people having consensual sexual intercourse filmed at their knowledge.

 

I dislike the fact that sex these days is still a bit of a taboo. Young people don´t get educated enough to know what to do with their sexuality. Their parents rarely talk about it because they haven´t been talked to about it as well. Schools offer very limited knowledge on the subject, if any, so kids are left to learn everything from their friends who are just as much in the dark.

 

People are often embarrassed when talking about sex - there is a dissonance between the way sex is talked about in families and normal sexual needs. That´s why people make up for it by either vulgarity or laughter.

 

My point is - let´s not make a taboo of sex, it´s part of who we are. Get properly educated and if you still want to watch porn so be it.

11.       Trudy
7887 posts
 04 Dec 2009 Fri 11:10 pm

 

Quoting Daydreamer

 

 

Young people don´t get educated enough to know what to do with their sexuality. Their parents rarely talk about it because they haven´t been talked to about it as well. Schools offer very limited knowledge on the subject, if any, so kids are left to learn everything from their friends who are just as much in the dark.

 

I wonder what type of - if ever - sex education is given to kids in school in different countries. What do they get taught? Just the physical differences, pregnancy, STDs? Talks about staying a virgin until marriage? Do they also learn about preferences, feelings, romance? Do they get information about styles, toys, lust? And if they get any of this information, on what age?

 

I´m not against porn though if school/government policies make it impossible that kids are schooled well on all aspects and porn is the only solution for them, I fear for their sexual health in future.

12.       Daydreamer
3743 posts
 05 Dec 2009 Sat 01:24 am

 

Quoting Trudy

 

 

I wonder what type of - if ever - sex education is given to kids in school in different countries. What do they get taught? Just the physical differences, pregnancy, STDs? Talks about staying a virgin until marriage? Do they also learn about preferences, feelings, romance? Do they get information about styles, toys, lust? And if they get any of this information, on what age?

 

 

In Poland it changes, depending on the ruling party (if the right-wing is on - Sexual Education or as it´s called Preparation for family Life is off the curriculum). I had SE in secondary school in form of non compulsory classes that your parents had to give you their permission for. I still remember one of my classmates having her mum come to school every month (this is how frequent the classes were) and making sure she doesn´t attend the class for sexual maniacs {#emotions_dlg.scared} I really enjoyed the classes, they were taught by a psychologist specialising in sex. Still, for most of us it was a few good years too late to learn something new or to avoid a few mistakes {#emotions_dlg.shy} The programme covered everything - from the biological aspects, through personal hygiene, fetishes, masturbation, STDs, pregnancies, pills, to emotions. All discussed in a friendly, non-judgemental and non-offensive way.

 

I have no idea if there is a SE programme in Polish schools right now, but I doubt it. It´s more probable that the kids are taught the "stay virgin till you get married or baby Jesus will cry" attitude as religion is taught at schools (2 lessons/week {#emotions_dlg.head_bang})

13.       Rocco Siffredi
60 posts
 05 Dec 2009 Sat 03:06 am

As a pornstar, most of young boyz in the world grow up with my porn movies. I´m still teaching how to have sex with their partner to my next generation. Yes it´s a fact. Everybody watch porn, so it´s no need to act like a naive person. Porn is the cradle of life and u all have to accept it.

 

watch porn, have fun. satisfy your partners.Wink

14.       barba_mama
1629 posts
 05 Dec 2009 Sat 09:52 pm

I´m not anti-porn, but I am pro-realism... Really, those porn uhum...ladies seem to give guys the idea that women like really strange things. Porn...ladies get paid to scream and moan, and fake for their job. That is why it seems that certain...actions... are what women REALLY want when in reality, they (in general) REALLY don´t like it. {#emotions_dlg.you_crazy}

Erotica --- yes, weird porn --- no

15.       catwoman
8933 posts
 06 Dec 2009 Sun 01:57 am

It´s kind of amusing for me to read most of these responses.. really, most of you have no f.. clue what you´re talking about and never really delved into this subject in a serious way. You clearly simply reiterate what you hear or just speak based on your "intuition". I mean this "anti porn = anti-sex" sort of logic is pretty pathetic to say for a "non-obsessed", averagely reasonable person (it´s like saying that being anti-McDonald = being anti-food lol {#emotions_dlg.you_crazy}). Some of you are making porn like a new religion that´s beyond criticism. But since I´m apparently so obsessed about it, you´re not the right audience to speak to anyway.



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16.       barba_mama
1629 posts
 06 Dec 2009 Sun 12:23 pm

Okay, let me put it differently...if you are saying the porn-industry, then YES, I´m anti-porn industry. The girls get paid like...nothing. 99% doesn´t like what they are doing. I´ve watched some interesting documentaries about it, with a male porn-star explaining that it´s hard sometimes to do the nast with a girl, when he had just heard her cry like a baby before the taping, because she hates herself for doing this.

 

I don´t see anything wrong with a man and a woman having a certain taste for voyeurism enjoying some nasty-watching together, but the way in which most porn is created is wrong. And the way women, men, and everything surrounding the nasty is portrayed in modern day porn is also wrong. So, if there could be porn, that is made by enthousiastic adults, portraying real pleasures, or at least possible pleasures, I don´t see anything wrong with that.

 

The problem is that this kind of porn isn´t a reality right now.

17.       ptaszek
440 posts
 06 Dec 2009 Sun 11:27 pm

 

Quoting Trudy

 

 

I wonder what type of - if ever - sex education is given to kids in school in different countries. What do they get taught? Just the physical differences, pregnancy, STDs? Talks about staying a virgin until marriage? Do they also learn about preferences, feelings, romance? Do they get information about styles, toys, lust? And if they get any of this information, on what age?

 

I´m not against porn though if school/government policies make it impossible that kids are schooled well on all aspects and porn is the only solution for them, I fear for their sexual health in future.

 

 well,Poland for example...right now we have so called preparation to family life..interesting thing as it was always a card between politicians.The teachers who can teach it must be either psychologist or biologist...why other subject teachers cannot be............

18.       elenagabriela
2040 posts
 06 Dec 2009 Sun 11:41 pm

 

Quoting Daydreamer

 

 

In Poland it changes, depending on the ruling party (if the right-wing is on - Sexual Education or as it´s called Preparation for family Life is off the curriculum). I had SE in secondary school in form of non compulsory classes that your parents had to give you their permission for. I still remember one of my classmates having her mum come to school every month (this is how frequent the classes were) and making sure she doesn´t attend the class for sexual maniacs {#emotions_dlg.scared} I really enjoyed the classes, they were taught by a psychologist specialising in sex. Still, for most of us it was a few good years too late to learn something new or to avoid a few mistakes {#emotions_dlg.shy} The programme covered everything - from the biological aspects, through personal hygiene, fetishes, masturbation, STDs, pregnancies, pills, to emotions. All discussed in a friendly, non-judgemental and non-offensive way.

 

I have no idea if there is a SE programme in Polish schools right now, but I doubt it. It´s more probable that the kids are taught the "stay virgin till you get married or baby Jesus will cry" attitude as religion is taught at schools (2 lessons/week {#emotions_dlg.head_bang})

 

In Romania the sex is still a taboo subject even if there were 20 years after 1989`s Revolution...peoples think like in communism about sex. There is not a sexual education in school but there are a lot of magazines like Plaboy, FHM where the sexual subject are disscused. But most of youngers have a impproper sexual education. Most of teenagers become mothers at 15-16 because they didnt use contraceptive methods. Most of girls start their sexual life at 15-16....even they are still childs in behavior...And there is an improper mentality to be virgin before marriage. I have a 17 y daughter and I am talking to her about sex; I talked to her about sex from she was 2 years old, of course, not like at 17 years{#emotions_dlg.bigsmile}She told me about girl friends who started their sexual life..I told her that it is not important to be virgin at marriage but it is very important the first sexual partener. Sexuality and all about that subject is a very complex and need more attention for every teenager (boy or girl)

19.       ptaszek
440 posts
 07 Dec 2009 Mon 12:41 am

I guess sex is a taboo notion in all countries not only Romania..it does not blurr the fact that we were created as sexual beings with rights to express our sexuality.Here,I tend to agree with DD.

Sex is overrated nowadays and made a manipulation technique,look at primitive tribes-sex is nothing for them but everyday habit,not exaggerated,not paid attention-the same thing like washing,feeding or hunting.Nothing to boast about and nothing to feel ashamed while in most cultures-a thing to blame yourself,to feel ashamed,etc...

20.       ReyhanL
1961 posts
 07 Dec 2009 Mon 01:10 am

again {#emotions_dlg.wtf}{#emotions_dlg.wtf}{#emotions_dlg.wtf} ! Sex is no longer taboo in Romania. From where you get all this stuffs elenagabriela ?

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