medeniyeti örende gel kızım

I wold translate it I am an ignorant, stupid looser who does not know how to talk a lady

But he says:

Go and learn how to fit in civilized world

thanks

Your welcome, my advise for what it´s worth stop writing to him.Never answer..and he ll be upset in a way you can never make him with your words. When you write to him, specially in his language, you show that you care...

Good advice but I´m afraid that Laura Britturk will not listen.

I hope she will listen inter´s and Trudy´s advice with all my heart. I dont know why we all here made the same advices here, but girls continue to write those perverted ones( i dont mean your friend/partner britturk, so dont get me wrong) maybe foreign women find temptation in being pervert.

Doesnt it mean something like : come to the ruins of civilization my girl ?

 medeniyet= civilization
ören= ruins (of a building, structure, or city)

de= at

gel= come

kızım= my girl

This does make less sense than post #2..... 

It should be ´öğren´ , but he misspelled.

de in here is not at. It is for give a meaning "first do that after do this"

A few example for it;

Uyu da büyü

Ye de karnın doysun.

Oku da öğren.

Like that...