barba´s today disappointing assignation that I am not attractive led me to the question why I am not attractive or why women don´t find me so. Do ladies have an idea about why I am not attractive and advise me how I could possibly be so?

Uhum, as far as I know, YOU said you were not attractive, and I went along with it. So the question is, why do you think you are not attractive?

Because you have so far given me no clue or sign that you are about to fall in love with me.