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DEDİKODU YAPANLAR
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29 May 2006 Mon 06:10 pm |
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Quoting Deli_kizin: I always wanted 3 and Kadir 2.. and he says if we strat at 3, he will feel the need to go on till he can arrange a football team (see what i mean with taming him?) |
 my boyfriend said the exact same thing about the football team! although he wants to start at 5 (ouch!), then keep going until we get a entire football team, he wants them to play the beckhams 
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| 21. |
29 May 2006 Mon 08:12 pm |
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Thank you for your comments everyone.
I'm glad that there are some people who understand me! And also that there are people who, like me, dont agree with gossiping!!
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| 22. |
30 May 2006 Tue 12:14 am |
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Quoting miss_ceyda: Thank you for your comments everyone.
I'm glad that there are some people who understand me! And also that there are people who, like me, dont agree with gossiping!! |
Maybe this is my lack of English knowledge here, but gossiping is not always bad. It can relief people from feeligns under skin, in order to avoid nasty situations. But in your situation, the gossiping was used to achieve such a situation and harm a person for that matter. Anybody with a good heart could not do anything else but disagree.
I don't know if it helps anyways and how the situation really is. By going all over it again and again we could even make it worse for you, so I won't even try to guess what's going on and I won't try to find solutions for you. Because I'm sure you thought every possible scenario through. Just know that I'm planning to go to Ikea in Izmir to buy a double bed and a couch. You're welcome anytime  .
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| 23. |
02 Jun 2006 Fri 12:13 pm |
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it turns out that the real "gossiper" is my bf's mother!!
inanılmaz demi?!?!
why did this happen like this guys?
is there any way this could be my fault?
is there something so bad about the way i am to make this woman dislike me this much?
i am not a perfect muslim, my turkish is not excellent.. is this the problem? i really dont know...
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| 24. |
02 Jun 2006 Fri 12:33 pm |
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Maybe, I should tell you what kind of things the mother and sister of my father did to my mother  Now, we laugh, but it wasn't any fun to my mother.
They always find faults and just see the bad sides of the potential bride. In the end, isn't she the one that steals their one and only son?
You have to be either evil like them or play the deaf, but anyway all the things depend on the boy. He has to stand very determined about the girl and show them that he respects and loves her.
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| 25. |
02 Jun 2006 Fri 12:46 pm |
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yazzık canım bütün olayı okuyup anlamadım ama...valla cok kotü olmus..after all your dreams  its so bad
sad for u
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| 26. |
02 Jun 2006 Fri 03:10 pm |
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Quoting mltm: Maybe, I should tell you what kind of things the mother and sister of my father did to my mother Now, we laugh, but it wasn't any fun to my mother.
They always find faults and just see the bad sides of the potential bride. In the end, isn't she the one that steals their one and only son?
You have to be either evil like them or play the deaf, but anyway all the things depend on the boy. He has to stand very determined about the girl and show them that he respects and loves her. |
how true, reasonable and wise!
it so much depends on him, he can put end to most problems! if he is weak or indifferent the problems will never be solved!
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| 27. |
02 Jun 2006 Fri 05:14 pm |
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Quoting kazpol:
how true, reasonable and wise!
it so much depends on him, he can put end to most problems! if he is weak or indifferent the problems will never be solved! |
Yes!
But here of course we're talking about a young boy under 18 maybe?? So, maybe Ceyda, you have to wait just a bit more 
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| 28. |
02 Jun 2006 Fri 05:55 pm |
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Quoting mltm: Quoting kazpol:
how true, reasonable and wise!
it so much depends on him, he can put end to most problems! if he is weak or indifferent the problems will never be solved! |
Yes!
But here of course we're talking about a young boy under 18 maybe?? So, maybe Ceyda, you have to wait just a bit more |
he is nearly 18.. and sure we need to wait maybe 5-6 years until we both have careers and dont depend on our families as much, before we think about marriage. but unless we can get some respect out of his mother i doubt even thinking of marriage would be a wise option.
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| 29. |
02 Jun 2006 Fri 05:56 pm |
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Quoting ramayan: yazzık canım bütün olayı okuyup anlamadım ama...valla cok kotü olmus..after all your dreams its so bad
sad for u |
demi yani... artık insanlardan nefret ediyorum.. sanki kalbimde hiç sevgi yok artık.. ne bilim ya... boş ver... :'(
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