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Do Turkish men marry foreign women?
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10.       Britishgirl
4 posts
 12 Apr 2015 Sun 12:02 am

 

Quoting KediNero

 

I am not from Turkey but I have many Turkish and Arabic friends and they are all great people. And If you don´t like us than go away because such people are not welcome here, but if you are going to show some respect than we can talk friendly And why do you ask such bad questions?

What the hell is wrong with you? Can you not read English all that well? Where did i say i don´t like Turkish or Arabic people? You´re just trying to twist my words for whatever insane reason i have no idea.

People like you are the reason many don´t like Turkish people because you assume everyone has something against you, i have not stated in either the question or comments to you that i don´t like Turkish people and how the hell do you know what my religion is? I think its you who is the racist here not me. 

 

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11.       KediNero
418 posts
 12 Apr 2015 Sun 12:20 am

 

Quoting Britishgirl

 

What the hell is wrong with you? Can you not read English all that well? Where did i say i don´t like Turkish or Arabic people? You´re just trying to twist my words for whatever insane reason i have no idea.

People like you are the reason many don´t like Turkish people because you assume everyone has something against you, i have not stated in either the question or comments to you that i don´t like Turkish people and how the hell do you know what my religion is? I think its you who is the racist here not me. 

 

You are on my Ignore list.

I don´t have time to argue with you. {#emotions_dlg.bye}

 

12.       ozangurbuz
24 posts
 12 Apr 2015 Sun 12:49 am

 

Quoting Britishgirl

Does this ever happen? 

I heard that Turkish men see foreign women like American, British etc women as "easy" and they only use foreign women for sex but then marry a Turkish girl?

Is this true or just another stereotype.. 

 

It´s true like 20-30 years ago not only from Turkey but from all third world countries, men used to see women from europe as a goal to live a better life. I have read many people done marriages with contracts just to become a dad first then an english citizen but your government eventually realized whats going on and changed the laws in order to stop immigrant flow. As I said this was 20-30 years ago so there´s no reason to use you women for those purposes as it doesnt work anymore.

 

We are all human beings, there´s nothing wrong with meeting a foreginer woman and dating her also marrying her if you think she´s the right person you want to spend a life with. foreigner or not, hot or ugly... being "easy" is about you, yourself.

 

please consider before you post about things you heard from internet and stuff. I dont call it racist but it´s kinda annoying when you think you are superior and must be hunted.



Edited (4/12/2015) by ozangurbuz

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13.       bydand
755 posts
 12 Apr 2015 Sun 09:36 am

 

Quoting Britishgirl

Does this ever happen? 

I heard that Turkish men see foreign women like American, British etc women as "easy" and they only use foreign women for sex but then marry a Turkish girl?

Is this true or just another stereotype.. 

 

Just another stereotype in my opinion. If you had said ´some´ Turkish men then your question might have had a different answer.  You could turn this question around and say ´some´ British tourists both male and female go abroad looking for sex fueled by alcohol, a dangerous combination. Some of the behaviour of British tourists abroad is appalling.

 

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14.       haroutyun
5 posts
 13 Apr 2015 Mon 03:05 am

I think it´s the same with Middle Eastern people in general. Usually they prefer to marry people (spend the rest of their lives) with people that share the same cultural and moral values as them. Of course, there always is the exception that they break the usual tradition and meet other sorts of people. My family works the same way.

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15.       raydin
135 posts
 13 Apr 2015 Mon 08:32 am

 

Quoting Britishgirl

Does this ever happen? 

I heard that Turkish men see foreign women like American, British etc women as "easy" and they only use foreign women for sex but then marry a Turkish girl?

Is this true or just another stereotype.. 

 

Uhm I would say no...being that I´m an American married to a Turkish man, I never got that vibe from him. He doesnt see me as an "American" & himself "Turkish", and what I mean by that is he can look past the fact that I´m a foreigner. Thats one thing I would say most people in Turkey cant do. It really comes down to the individual, the guy. You can find an honest good hearted person in any ethnicity and culture. So as far as this stereotype...i wouldnt say its completely false...there are some guys that do view foreign women like that...but then there are those who dont. And in any country its like this. 

16.       impulse
298 posts
 02 Sep 2015 Wed 06:42 pm

 

Quoting Britishgirl

Does this ever happen?

I heard that Turkish men see foreign women like American, British etc women as "easy" and they only use foreign women for sex but then marry a Turkish girl?

Is this true or just another stereotype..

 

No. I am not like that, non of my friends are like that. There are ofcourse guys like that around the world. But it is not a special case for Turkish people. I have many friends who are married to foreign women and they are very happy.

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17.       denizli
970 posts
 23 Apr 2016 Sat 03:30 am

 

Quoting ozangurbuz

 

...

 

please consider before you post about things you heard from internet and stuff.

 

...

 

Yeah that´s a good point.

18.       Hanaxx
1 posts
 02 Jan 2017 Mon 11:48 pm

 

Quoting KediNero

 

This is very stupid and racist question.

Why do you think that your people are better than Turkish or anyone else who is not your religion?

 

Why most of British and American people are racists?

 

 

Ok I´m not trying to be rude or ´racist´ and sorry if I come across like that but what do you lot mean by foreigners? Because every single time I see questions and forums like this people say British American and religion in case you haven´t realised there are people such as me who live in Britain but are Musli m so how do we have different religion to you? British and American aren´t religions they´re cultures. Yes some people are racist but the same can be said for any race it isn´t just British and Americans. Honestly I just don´t get your definition of foreigner.

 

19.       gokuyum
5050 posts
 04 Jan 2017 Wed 03:03 pm

 

Quoting Hanaxx

 

 

Ok I´m not trying to be rude or ´racist´ and sorry if I come across like that but what do you lot mean by foreigners? Because every single time I see questions and forums like this people say British American and religion in case you haven´t realised there are people such as me who live in Britain but are Musli m so how do we have different religion to you? British and American aren´t religions they´re cultures. Yes some people are racist but the same can be said for any race it isn´t just British and Americans. Honestly I just don´t get your definition of foreigner.

 

Foreigner is someone who is not Turkish. Your religion doesnt matter. And being a foreigner isnt a bad thing. Turks are really interested in meeting and talking with foreigners. That is why we have this forum, right?

 

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20.       bydand
755 posts
 10 Jan 2017 Tue 08:19 pm

Exactly gokuyum. We have been coming to Turkey for almost 30 years and have made many friends. We find Turkish people on the whole very welcoming. Religion isn´t a problem. We exchange greetings at our various festivals. We have a few unpleasant characters in our own country. 

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