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In Love with Turkish Men?
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| 70. |
08 Oct 2009 Thu 04:24 pm |
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Let´s not be guilty of generalising now eh? 
Boy, you just want to suck the fun out of EVERYTHING!
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| 71. |
09 Oct 2009 Fri 04:39 pm |
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Good point - but I think you are talking about Turkish tourist workers and not ALL Turkish men!!! Let´s not be guilty of generalising now eh? 
Wrong!!!..........You know it´s not just TOURIST WORKERS........What about the country bumpkins and unemployed inland Turkish men?
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09 Oct 2009 Fri 05:13 pm |
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Good point - but I think you are talking about Turkish tourist workers and not ALL Turkish men!!! Let´s not be guilty of generalising now eh? 
Wrong!!!..........You know it´s not just TOURIST WORKERS........What about the country bumpkins and unemployed inland Turkish men?
...but..they are the tourist workers! 
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09 Oct 2009 Fri 05:24 pm |
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Please, Can anyone offer advice as to why SO many western women seem to fall inlove with Turkish men? I read this site regularly now, and most translation posts are from women desperate to communicate with a Turkish man. (please - don´t hear me as judgemental- I´m in the same boat) BUT WHY? I truly am seeking insight.
Thats all about charm of diversities ,mystery and unknows (for a while only till get realize everythings same in main )
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12 Oct 2009 Mon 02:57 pm |
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The reason lies with you not with the Turkish men. It is common for women who are insecure about the way they look or otherwise have fading looks to go for the stereotypical Turkish man, the guys who tells you ´You´re so beautiful!´, ´I love you!´ or otherwise pleads, begs or debases himself in other ways every five minutes. The compliments feed an undernourished ego and that makes plain jane feel like Queen Jane.
1) The best women are intelligent and confident about the way they look and feel amazing even without a man telling them that they are. 2) These kinds of women tend not to be so taken-in when they visit Turkey, 3) some girls I knew have even claimed to find such attention nauseating.
1) True 
2) True
3) True (not that you know me of course!)
In fact you must have written a book on it 
Edited (10/12/2009) by libralady
[Felt the need to add some colour :)]
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13 Jan 2010 Wed 06:21 pm |
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Hey people... I would like to hear your oppinioun about orthodox-muslim relationship? I am from Serbia, and I m orthodox, and my boyfriend is muslim from Ankara.... for now, I am not complaining, he treats me really good.... but I have heard that marriage is diffent..... that I must change religion, that he will insist on some turkish rules (I mean on scarf), he will not allow me to wear my usuall clothes (high hills, skirt...)... I beliave him when he says no way, it certanlly cant become true....but I want hear what you think?
thank you
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13 Jan 2010 Wed 06:35 pm |
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Hey people... I would like to hear your oppinioun about orthodox-muslim relationship? I am from Serbia, and I m orthodox, and my boyfriend is muslim from Ankara.... for now, I am not complaining, he treats me really good.... but I have heard that marriage is diffent..... that I must change religion, that he will insist on some turkish rules (I mean on scarf), he will not allow me to wear my usuall clothes (high hills, skirt...)... I beliave him when he says no way, it certanlly cant become true....but I want hear what you think?
thank you
This is a very personal matter. This is totally dependent on your boyfriend. Some muslims in Turkey are very orthodox about the Islam, and they would never marry a woman who is not a muslim. Other muslims in Turkey are more free in their approach to Islam, and see it as their personal view, which they would like to share with their wife, but which is not a must.
If he says "no way", and he is not the jealous type of guy, and he never lies to you about other stuff, then I think you can trust him in this. Just try to see how he usually fills his life with Islam and what his family is like, and you can already get an indication of what he will be like after marriage.
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15 Jan 2010 Fri 10:58 am |
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Hey people... I would like to hear your oppinioun about orthodox-muslim relationship? I am from Serbia, and I m orthodox, and my boyfriend is muslim from Ankara.... for now, I am not complaining, he treats me really good.... but I have heard that marriage is diffent..... that I must change religion, that he will insist on some turkish rules (I mean on scarf), he will not allow me to wear my usuall clothes (high hills, skirt...)... I beliave him when he says no way, it certanlly cant become true....but I want hear what you think?
thank you
we have heard that you kill muslims in your country? is it true? if you live in Serbia when you marry your bf, will they kill him too?
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| 78. |
15 Jan 2010 Fri 11:32 am |
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we have heard that you kill muslims in your country? is it true? if you live in Serbia when you marry your bf, will they kill him too?
Bravo... you just made the beautiful love that two people share into some kind of political statement... shame on you!
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15 Jan 2010 Fri 11:36 am |
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Bravo... you just made the beautiful love that two people share into some kind of political statement... shame on you!
yeah what a beautiful and honest love when the girl comes to a forum and express her doubts about her bf. mutual trust at its best!
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| 80. |
15 Jan 2010 Fri 11:42 am |
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yeah what a beautiful and honest love when the girl comes to a forum and express her doubts about her bf. mutual trust at its best!
No, she just wants to be prepared. She doesn´t have a lot of knowledge about this issue, and thought she would find some people who know more about it. A.k.a...the FRIENDLY people of this forum. I will not let grumpy people like you, scream and complaint so that people like her run and hide and never come on this forum again. So...scream and complaint all you want, I will express my opinion that you should be very ashamed behind your messages every time 
LOVE YOU! 
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