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Thread: Akbil?

521.       vineyards
1954 posts
 14 Feb 2010 Sun 02:04 am

They are based on a product called iButton from Dallas Semiconductors. We use them in our designs occassionally too. Very useful devices.

 

These days, when you have left your akbil home, you usually pay the driver and he uses his akbil (don´t know if it is really his or the company´s) in your stead.

 

 

 

 

 

 



Thread: WHY DO PEOPLE WANT TO MOVE/IMMIGRATE TO A FOREIGN COUNTRY?

522.       vineyards
1954 posts
 12 Feb 2010 Fri 03:35 am

There may probably be as many different motives as the number of emigrants in the world. It is possible to classify them into several groups which are already pretty obvious.

 

There is one however which I feel quite common especially among youngsters. These people make little money working in stressful jobs day in day out. After a few tries which end up with the usual frustration they hear stories of other people who have made it big in Europe or America. Especially if they are not skilled enough or patient enough to gain experience at the very least, the system turns them into losers. They begin knocking every door to obtain a visa. Those who are lucky enough make it even more difficult for others when they become illegal workers in another country. This whole thing continues like this in a vicious circle.

 

A common short-cut the take is getting into relationship with a foreign woman. I know dozens of Turkish guys who don´t even consider those foreign girls as proper humans. They are never good enough for marrying. I don´t how but they are usually able to fool these women.

 

It is sad for those women but it is also sad for those losers too. Because there seems to be no cure for their sad lives...

 

 

Quoting yilgun-2010

Why do people want to move to a foreign country?

Why do people want to immigrate to the United States?

Why do people want to move to the UK?

Why do people want to immigrate to Australia, Canada or France?

Why do people want to move or immigrate to Türkiye?

 

For a good life?

For marriage, love, employment, education, adventure, psychological reasons, family tree, getting a professional advancement, a better  economic situation, cultural standarts, etc.

And the case of legal immigrants, illegal immigrants and refugees?

I have seen a large number of immigrants in Europe during my first travel.

I think there are a great  many reasons why people come to a foreign country?

 

 

 



Thread: Turkish Boyfriends and Girlfriends.

523.       vineyards
1954 posts
 10 Feb 2010 Wed 11:34 am

 

Unfortunately, many Muslim families including my own enforce the rules of the religion from early childhood. You get circumcised regardless of what your faith will be in the future. Having said that it is not as horrible as it seems. I get by with the understanding that getting circumcised can in fact be healthier. At least, this is what we are being told.

 

You should know that Turkey has a very big population comprising many ethnic groups, cultures, beliefs, life styles etc. So, unlike those countries like Bulgaria, Romania, Hungary, Poland etc where people tend to be unicultural and uniracial, Turkish people is a complex mixture of all sorts including sharp contrasts and contradictions. That means you can find all sorts of people. As I am writing these lines, hundreds of thousands of people are having one night stands, millions of them are going to a mosque, some are committing honor killings and some are drinking their lives away. Some of these people call themselves muslims and some do not. It is a natural result of being a big and diversified country. I just wanted to highlight the difference between a small and homogenious country and a big one.

 

Quoting Platschu

For example non-Muslim guys must accept circumcision, which is one of the greatest final test before marriage, but I doubt he will be a "real" Muslim in his heart even if he accepts this physical requirement from the family of his love...

 

I could have found such reasons toom that a local Turkish woman won´t speak with foreign  men. But how would that Turkish woman react in a Western country? Would they flirt there if they are not controlled by relatives, laws and traditions? And what is more important? Religion or personal happiness? Must we combine or separete these in our life?

 

 



Thread: Virginity as ´qualification´....

524.       vineyards
1954 posts
 09 Feb 2010 Tue 04:46 pm

My family lived and mixed up with locals in Greece for hundreds of years. We call ourselves Turk regardless of how we look or who we are ethnically. It is the culture that brings people together.

Quoting barba_mama

What a strange arguement...

The word Turk can be explained in two ways...either a citizen of modern day Turkey, which most people here refer to. This INCLUDES those pesky Kurds with their pesky Kurdish culture, their language and songs... Ah, the good old days when they weren´t allowed to speak their Kurdish language.. that really helped against the threat of Kurdification.

Anyway, then there is the more historical reference of Turks. The people who migrated from the Asian steppes. These are NOT the people from Greece, but more closely linked to people from Turkmenistan. If you say the modern Turks is linked to Greece, then you are talking about Turks as the definition "modern day citizen of Turkey", which ALSO includes allll those Kurds, and the Arabs, Circassians and many more ethnic backgrounds.

 

Kurds living in Turkey are Turkish citizens, deal with it. They are therefor Turks, if those Greek and Armenian decendents are also Turks.

 

 



Thread: Virginity as ´qualification´....

525.       vineyards
1954 posts
 09 Feb 2010 Tue 04:45 pm

It doesn´t have anything with right or wrong. We are talking about differing mentalities or political preferences here.

 

There are different mentalities based on different interests, desires, and choices. You can spend your entire life  believing in something which others refuse without even thinking about it. That doesn´t mean you are not entitled to having that belief. It is just that sometimes it may be easier for those outside the circle to notice shortcomings of a belief system.

 

 



Thread: Virginity as ´qualification´....

526.       vineyards
1954 posts
 09 Feb 2010 Tue 04:30 pm

Am I sensing some AlphaF identity here?



Thread: How dangerous is Turkey?

527.       vineyards
1954 posts
 09 Feb 2010 Tue 01:43 am

If you are going there before you or your family sort out accomodation and other needs then you will be pretty much at the hands of strangers, should you fall into a desperate situation. You sound inexperienced and you are still too young. You must be able to take care of yourself. If you have any concerns about this point, it would be better to wait a little more until things have shaped up.

 

Bad things happen when you lose control of your own life and become dependant on others who might abuse your weakness. Turkey is neither particularly dangerous nor extremely safe. If you can´t hold onto your own life, shit happens regardless of where you are.

 

Quoting EnglishGirl

Merhaba,

 

I am hoping to gain some advice from people who have experience living in Turkey, I am student, I have visiting Turkey twice before and loved it both times. The last time I visited I stayed in Yalikavak and thought it was amazing, while there I also began learning the Turkish language. After a lengthy search for a job in Yalikavak I have been offered a waitress position.

 

Although I have yet to organise my work visa and accomodation, fortunately my mum is going over in march (to visit her fiance) and is going to try and find me a place to stay, I will also be visiting with my family before I go over to work to meet the staff at the restaurant and finalise my accomodation.

 

Although my mum is hoping to marry a Turkish man, she and the rest of my family have great concern over my safety during my two and a half month stay this summer. I am nineteen but people often say I look around sixteen or seventeen, I have made friends in Yalikavak and I´m still in contact with them but they will be staying about 20 minutes away from the restuarant. My mum and family believe with me being a young girl, going over alone will be very dangerous and depending on the type of accomodation I find I may have to live with young Turkish workers.

 

Does anyone have any opinions on the matter? Any advice on finding affordable safe accomodation will also be greatly appreciated

 

 

 



Edited (2/9/2010) by vineyards



Thread: Virginity as ´qualification´....

528.       vineyards
1954 posts
 09 Feb 2010 Tue 01:29 am

Not just Americans. European people including Turks are very much that way too. It is just that they don´t know how patriotic they appear to one another.

 

Quoting raindrops

 

melting pot? i could not talk to person bec after 25 years in usa she did not talk english. she could not understand me at all (dont joke about pronunciation please )) )

 

mosaic? yes probably. my friend emigrated there. it is 6th year she is learning English, never worked, does not speak to enlg speakers. she is probably part of mosaic, but what kind of picture will be at the end?

 

you cannot live in isolation in modern world. it means that majority of us are in melting pot. we are boiled soft. at the end there will be some kind of stew: some taste of different vegies, but hard to see whole piece of any.

 

 

 

 



Thread: Virginity as ´qualification´....

529.       vineyards
1954 posts
 08 Feb 2010 Mon 10:51 pm

To put the record straight, the Kurds form a considerable percentage of the population of this country. Therefore all their values, traditions, economic stati etc add up to the overall outlook of the entire nation. They are a part of this country hence a part of our collective identity.

 

 

Quoting Yersu

 

 

Dear Platschu;

 

I know I am getting closer to being labeled as a racist by writing the same thing over and over but I can not stand this being called "Turkish". "Honor killings" and "female circumsicion" are Kurdish cultural phenomeons, not Turkish. You can look up Adıyaman (where this incident occured) and compare it with an ethnic map to see what I mean.

 

These things happen in Kurdish populated regions of Turkey, Iraq, Iran and Syria but very rarely if at all among Turks, Arabs and Persians. Type "Kurdish honour killing" in youtube for a sample that happened in Iraq, among Yazidis(Very very graphic, be warned)

 

I am respectful to cultures of people so I am not against these things as long as they do not affect or concern Turks, and as long as the yare not labeled "Turkish".

 

 



Thread: Need a place to stay? Here is my hotel list..

530.       vineyards
1954 posts
 05 Feb 2010 Fri 11:16 am

Check out this hotel in Cappadocia:

 

http://www.argosincappadocia.com/

 

and this one on Cunda island in Ayvalik:

 

http://www.yundantik.com/

 

 

The first one belongs to my cousin, and the second to my sister-in-law. They might offer a little discount if you mention my name (I hope).

 

They spent so much money and time building these hotels and man they are really nice but a bit pricey too.



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