üYou should want to find yourself a good job not for me... Job should not be problem - even your old job wants you back...

if you love someone you will make it work..

army service is long time away ... If we had baby I can take back to England my family will support me while you do army ... A lot of young people in turkey marry and have babies - they handle problems together ...

its not long service - I can come back to turkey after .... If you want it over say but I am sure you will find job no problem I´ve got a great family while you are away .... It´s only a few months 

Please don´t ever not feel good enough for me I am sure you can find jobs no problem - army service is in 2 or 3 years time if we are married and have children by then it´s not problem I have supportive family I can go home to England while your in army and return when you finish it´s not problem... A lot of people have family and join army please don´t worry....  2 years is long time off don´t worry ...  If you love someone you make it work .... You will work hard to make this work and support your family like every man does....