It has got beyond a joke - reading the translation forum and watching women act as if they are brain-washed while the men they love so much act so selfishly and talk only of money, has become unbearable.

Sitting and watching these "cons" take place, and not being able to do anything about it, drives me crazy. This is not just about broken hearts, its about their whole lives being ruined.....

I dont wish to embarass the person involved, so wont use any names, but this message is just sick!

"Look darling I hope you understand me. I want to buy a business. The total cost is 50000$. Half the bank will give me credit for but the other half I have to pay. I can't do this in my own strength. If you do not help me I can't succeed on my own. I asked you how much money you could find, but you don't have any money. This means it is impossible for us to buy this business. For the house we need at least 10000$. Rents in Bodrum are very expensive, we need furniture, there will be lots of expenses. These are all too much for me, in other words I can't do it if you don't help. Please don't misunderstand me. Haven't you done anything up to now, meaning up to this age, don't you have any social security or pension fund, I don't understand it. If you don't help me in this way I can't rent a house becasue of money, and I can't buy a business because I don't have the financial strength, and all of the dreams we made will be worthless. If this is the case I have to go to Germany, because it is no point waiting for March because nothing will happen in March and I will have wasted time waiting. Understand me and forgive me my darling because you don't have money and I don't have money it will be very hard. So it is a shame but our love will be destroyed because of money. I hope you understood me, my darling. But I will never forget you my baby."

I really believe, there more important subjects right now, right at this moment to get upset and feel inadequate about not being able to do anything than worrying about heart broken TC women/girls.

We are not just talking about heart-breaks Handsom, we are talking about women losing EVERYTHING THEY OWN as well.

Sure, I am not surprised you have no sympathy. They are just dumb women right?

I am completely shocked reading that story. We are not just talking about a new cellphone or laptop, which in itself is already a big amount of money, but someone is actually threatening his girl to leave her if she doesnt give him a bank deposit of 10 thousands of dollars!

On a lighter note, I have a friend who works for DHL Couriers and she told me that if ANYONE comes in to send a package to Turkey they have been told to ask "is it a cell phone"

Sign of the times I guess...