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Kadir!
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02 Nov 2006 Thu 05:23 pm |
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Quote: Perfect Christine - I totally agree with your post. Except... I HONESTLY dont dress to be sexy to men or compete with other women . I dress to make myself feel good, to feel confident, to reflect my mood or to feel stylish. I definitely NEVER make the conscious decision to look "sexy" . This has got me worried now haha! Perhaps I need to dress more sexy! |
I don't how honest you are with yourself. However do a large number of women dress up to feel happy and confident at home? (need to feel happy outside of home only?) If so, why can I see just few women in the gym during the winter months, but see lots of women coming to the gym as of March? Is it simply because of the coming season and to be fit in their bikinies? And also why don't you dress up nicely and wear your make up at home at the weekend and watch TV or listen to music (whatever you do) to feel yourselves happy.
PS. Dressing sexy doesn't necessarily make a woman sexy. She need to have some assets.
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02 Nov 2006 Thu 07:33 pm |
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Haha yes I knew about Hülya Avşar. Hear İbo proposing to her in his show as well after she made fun of him earlier that week.
To return to the subject. Qdemir, I think the reason of membership for most of the girls here is the fact they have their own love. I don't think they need mine. And İ dont think anyone has got what it takes  , so I dont worry about a thing here.
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02 Nov 2006 Thu 08:09 pm |
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Quoting qdemir: I don't how honest you are with yourself. However do a large number of women dress up to feel happy and confident at home? (need to feel happy outside of home only?) If so, why can I see just few women in the gym during the winter months, but see lots of women coming to the gym as of March? Is it simply because of the coming season and to be fit in their bikinies? And also why don't you dress up nicely and wear your make up at home at the weekend and watch TV or listen to music (whatever you do) to feel yourselves happy.
PS. Dressing sexy doesn't necessarily make a woman sexy. She need to have some assets. |
Dont make me angry !!!  Listen, please DONT GENERALISE. There maybe SOME women who do this, but not all. I think it is a sad insight of your OWN mentality if you feel that all women are there for you to look at, that they are displaying their sexuality for you to gaze at hahaha!
BTW - yes, I do dress nicely at home, and sometimes wear make up too - SO THERE!
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02 Nov 2006 Thu 09:02 pm |
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Quoting aenigma x:
BTW - yes, I do dress nicely at home, and sometimes wear make up too - SO THERE! |
İ dress nicely and wear make up at home too just for myself to feel cool,happy and confident.
And mostly i don't wear make up outside cause of the sun could harm my complex.
İ agree qdemir,there are some women who dress up to draw men attention,but those are who have lack of self confidence.
Most women dress up to feel good,comfort,and to express theirselves and their moods.
Men not the center of the world for women....not anymore !
Beside,women are drawing men attention no matter what do they wear..lol
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02 Nov 2006 Thu 09:22 pm |
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Hmm, I like dressing up, and looking good when I go out. I also don't mind getting attention. No, I don't need men staring at me. But, isn't it nice every once in awhile if someone notices you. Think about this, why are some people so absorbed in brand name clothing? Is it the texture of the material or the slogan & brand name on the clothes itself? Sometimes I tend to wonder. But I am guilty of this too.
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02 Nov 2006 Thu 10:05 pm |
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Quoting qdemir: Quote: ]
I don't how honest you are with yourself. However do a large number of women dress up to feel happy and confident at home? (need to feel happy outside of home only?) If so, why can I see just few women in the gym during the winter months, but see lots of women coming to the gym as of March? Is it simply because of the coming season and to be fit in their bikinies? And also why don't you dress up nicely and wear your make up at home at the weekend and watch TV or listen to music (whatever you do) to feel yourselves happy.
PS. Dressing sexy doesn't necessarily make a woman sexy. She need to have some assets. |
Well, I must be the only woman here who will admit...I don't wear make-up Mon-Fri. I wear sweats at home and sometimes to teach, eye glasses to class, and my Nike running shoes, I also can be seen frequently with a ponytail. But, come Saturday nite...I have on high heels, hair down, jewellery, definetly some lipstick, and a dress. Do I feel better. NO! Must be only in my head...but I look good whether I'm in sweats or some low rider jeans! I am proud of who I am, where I have been, and where I am going in my life. I have gotten the highest teaching marks in our dept. and was chosen to represent our dept. on the interdept. council. Doesn't matter what I have on...I KNOW WHO I AM! (Oh, I go train all year round 5-7days of the week. I'm addicted to my martial arts.) In short...I don't need heels, make-up, designer clothes, a nice car or anything else to add value to my worth or turn heads. I am priceless and that is what the other women are saying as well. However you dress, if you know your worth the rest doesn't matter! |
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02 Nov 2006 Thu 11:13 pm |
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Quote: I'm addicted to my martial arts.) |
OK. I admit, Capoeira  
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02 Nov 2006 Thu 11:26 pm |
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In fact I was trying to criticize men in my original post. However it has turned out to be otherwise. I am sorry if I have offended anyone. But I would like to point out that whenever men are criticized severely on here I have never get offended and take it personally.
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02 Nov 2006 Thu 11:31 pm |
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Quoting qdemir: In fact I was trying to criticize men in my original post. However it has turned out to be otherwise. I am sorry if I have offended anyone. But I would like to point out that whenever men are criticized severely on here I have never get offended and take it personally. |
Noted 
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03 Nov 2006 Fri 12:55 am |
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Quoting qdemir: Don't trust yourselves that much, ladies.
The woman who has been regarded as the most beautiful woman in Turkey for ages (even though she is in her forties) has had his husband stolen (stolen by an another woman who is even less beautiful than her. you might know who the woman is. It is Hülya Avşar.
Women likes stealing other women's (who are more beautiful and attractive than them) men. I think it is just to appease their female vanity by implying "Your man has prefered me to YOU. It doesn't matter how beautiful and attractive you are. He is mine from now on but not yours any longer." Men go to the gym or buy the most expensive suit or car to attract women. On the other hand women do such things as going to the gym, making up, dressing nice not to attract men only but to compete with other women.
As you know very well, ladies that the part who starts and ends a relationship whenever it wishes is women. The world turns around you. Women are superior to men in contrary to it is regarded by some. I dont think if women didn't exist there wouldn't be such things as a mercedes car or expensive suits. |
i dont really know... is it good example to talk about magazine people here... their life style is much more different...
anyway i cant agree more to what you said that i marked with bold... its so strange isnt it...
all the things are around woman... but what makes woman a woman is man
womans stealing others men or mens stealing others woman is sth really with pshycological, that who never satisfies...
and i didnt quote your last post...
but what exactly you wanted to crictisize about men?
lastly dressing is really important... but it is sth like that when you feel yourself good in sth... and when you are able to give this positive energy to the person you are with... nothing else is more important clothing appears just a little part of the game
Quoting Sophie:
I can tell you that I have NEVER looked at or glimpsed or wished to be is such a car with such a man. You have my word for that. And in fact, I "kicked" out a millionaire who was coming to visit me with his private hellicopter and was begging me to let him "spoil" me (like he said), JUST because he had so much money and he was showing off. He was a great looking guy and ready to offer me the world. Stupid? Maybe. But I would do it again, if I had the chance.
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i can just say WOW! to that nothing more... such an adorable person you are...
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...I thought we were true friends!!! 
