Here is a thread to pass on your pearls of wisdom haha!

Here is mine:

Relationships:
The first year of being with someone is the BEST it gets! You can maintain that wonderful feeling, with compromise, flexibility and working hard, but it HAS to be there in that first year.

If you have problems, are badly treated or constantly argue with someone within that first year, FORGET IT! No amount of "wishing" will ever make it better. I constantly see posts on this forum where people seem to be clinging on to someone who is treating them badly. GET RID OF THEM! Don't waste your time! And MOST importantly, NEVER think that a baby will bring you closer together.

That is my advice today!

Don't throw a brick straight up

...I agree with you too, TT!!! ...that was very wise and should be read and re-read by all women that try to justify a miserable relationship...

...of course, honey! ...and even if I did not...I have to go on posting so that susie k stays way back!!! ...so my free advice to susie k: ...stop posting!

Dont pour hot (boiling even :-S ) fat into a plastic jug