hej guys, can someone please help how you say in turkish "i give up!, pleae can someone help me...

I think "vazgeçtim" but I'm no expert...

oh but ayla you are

so, hmmm, i write vazgeçtim! , i want to say to my boyfriend, or ex boyfriend, i dont know, that i give up fighten for getting him back, when he dont even care.. i want to say that, but like undirect, and whit not many words, i think the girls understand me what i want to say.. i put then vazgeçtim!, or what do you think :-S

no, no not bitti, i just want to say i give up my tryes, theres is 2 people in a relationstip, and i feel like the only one trying is me, so i want to say i give up, but dont finish, i want him to understand that he also has to show me, if you know what i mean... hmmm thank you, if somebody understands what i want to say

May I suggest a message?

here it is:

I give up on our relationship. You are not even trying to put some effort into it.

yeah, that whas really god, thank you... maybe after the sentence, i could get some helt saying, now its up to you thats how he makes me feal hmmm
thank you for your help kai.. how do i say this in turkish now?