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advice please
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12 Nov 2005 Sat 12:06 am |
hi everyone i just want a bit of advice please i met this turkish boy on holiday called Ibrahim and we swapped numbers and the last day i was there he sent me a message saying he loved me we began to text and email each other all the time i told him i loved him too but the problem is i split up with another lad a couple of months ago and still have feelings for him i do have feeling for Ibrahim and i do tell him i love him all the time aswell. he sent me a message in turkish and asked me to translte it said I WANT TO MARRY YOU i was really shocked and havent emailed him back yet because i am only 15 and i have only known him for about a month , is he being serious and what should i do please someone help
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12 Nov 2005 Sat 12:34 am |
No matter where you are from the prospect of marriage at such a young age is probably not a very sensible one. Whether you have such deep rooted feelings for a person or not.
If it were me, I might say something like; 'I care deeply for you too, I don't think I'm ready to talk about marriage yet, we should get to know eachother much better...see how things develop...'
This way you won't sound as if you are rejecting him completely and you'll have some time to think.
You never know what the future holds.
Do yourself a favor and step back, take a look at the situation and try to be objective.
You don't want to get into something you may regret later.
Good luck.
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12 Nov 2005 Sat 02:41 am |
first of all you are too young to marry.....second when the feelings involve in your mind you can never make a healthy decicion....just think how much do you know him?????how much do he know you????is it possible to live and marry who you know for one month...i dont think he love you...(i dont believe in love)or i dont think you love him....dont make your beautiful mind with such nonsense things...take care have nice day...
try to have fun
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12 Nov 2005 Sat 10:57 am |
Hello Hayleyere,
Ramayan is right, take your time and enjoy your life.You have lots of time ahead.
Good luck!
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12 Nov 2005 Sat 07:34 pm |
thanks everyone for your replies
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