Anna... I won't make you relate to anymore marriages but to the one which I think you know. Have you ever heard of Ms. Ruffa Gutierrez' marriage? I know how to pronounce her husband's name but I dunno how to write it (freakin' sorry for that.. yeah, he is a Turk). I guess he was married before they met but 'dya know how happy Annabelle Rama (Ruffa's mom) about her daughter's marriage? According to her she had a great marriage life... believe that? You know Ruffa, do you?
Girl, if he really, really loves you.. just go for it. It is your LOVE for each other that will matter the most. If you have love and faith on it then things will just work out fine. Remember LOVE PLUS FAITH in him. Asking about the point of view of some people around you on Turk-and-other-nationality-marriages will help a little, but having an assurance that you meant to marry each other inspite and despite all the differences.. race, culture, tradition, language, religion, etc. is what matters A LOT.
My baby told me once that people from his country likes girls from the Phils. Oppsss.. he spoke for his country that time and I said.. oh, really?.. okay.. (no comment)
but when he asked me to marry him , I began asking his pure intent and I am still investigating
Girl.. O, be wise. What can I say more?
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