Can anyone advise the best way for me to learn the language. Whats best to start with first??

Well... here is one from me: the best way for you to learn the language is your own way, for none but you can know what way is the best for you.

Have you tried the left menu of this site?
"Learn Turkish"
and the sub menus?

Look:
http://www.turkishclass.com/turkish_lessons_qdemir

thanks, i have looked. I guess i'll get plenty of help from everyone on here if i get stuck with anything!