I was wondering... do you believe guys can be very closed up... for example is it possible for a guy with lots of pride, love a girl sooo much..and after break up from a long term relationship, act as if he does not een care if the girl exists or not? putting in mind she did not hurt him.. he hurt her... is it possible that he still loves her but needs more than a year to get the strenght of breaking his pride for forgiveness? in other words, is it easier for guys to fake happiness? because i can do it only till an extend as a girl..but i can't run away from everything...what's your opinion..both girls and guys