does it mean we are over if he just hasn't left me a single word for a week?

i sent him e-mail,sms and gave him a short call during the week but i had no reply..

we had no argument or quarrel and i just simply don't know what's going on.

he mentioned to me that he would have exams in December.

but is it really that busy that he couldn't spare me 5 minutes for a message or a call?

i'm not sure about that.

but when he thought that i was going to his place in December,he asked me not to go as he felt it's not a right time for me to meet him there because he would have exams at that time.

yesterday i sent him a mail talking about how i feel and i think it sounds quite serious,but he didn't give me any reply..

i don't know if he has checked the mail or he just didn't want to have contact with me anymore..

i'm stuck here and i don't know what to do..

and frankly there's nothing i can do but just wait..

please then, do urself a favour.. calm down, and wait!!
if he doesnt wanna contact u again for one silly argument f**k him!! is it worth it..
oh yeah... and stop contacting him like that... if he is playing some sort of sick male game then ur playing right into his hands... running after him...

Do not fret so much.
Students in Turkey are very very serious about their studies and exams. It is not like in England. I know absolutely loads of students and believe me when they are studying, they really study. They don't do anythng else. It is really really really important to pass your exams in Turkey. You cannot compare them to English students.

Miss Ceyda is also right (as usual) don't run after him. 'Treat em mean and keep em keen'! actually i've never been able to follow that philosophy and would probably be just like you.
Just wait...
When he said he didn't want you to come in December, he was telling the truth, if he has exams he would not want to be distracted. He will not be able to waste any mental energy arguing with you either. He will have his nose stuck in a book or on the computer. My turkish student friends never EVER text or email during their exams -its probably nothing to worry about. Don't disturb him while he is studying.
Good luck

hihi i missed you lyndie.. im not usually right am i? :S waow... i doubt ramayan would agree with that one

Still being 'parsley' to every salad miss C? OOLO

Parsley? Its very good to eat it when you have eaten too much garlic, it makes your breath 'kissable' (you might want to carry that piece of wisdom with you to the grave Miss C.
As for being 'parsley in every salad' I think he is making a reference to your having something to say about every subject! He's teasing you (quelle surprise!)

thanks for your suggestions....

but right after i've sent out the message,i got a long mail from him at late night

he said he was angry about his behaviour of not contacting me for a week,but it's because he wanted to forget me..and he wanted me to forget him..

he said what we had was not love..because we couldn't love through only phones and computers

he thanks Allah to give him an opportunity to meet me..what a sweet goodbye..

my heart was broken..but he's no wrong in this decision and what he's thinking is actually quite true..

he asked me to give him a reply if i want to have him as a good friend in the future.although we couldn't go back to the time we were,i still want to have him in my life in the future..but i'm just not sure if i can treat him right as a good friend..

i think he put it the nicest way he could actually... well, after getting round to contacting you!!
he obviously wants to move on in life and the net relationship is obviously sth. he doesnt want...
and i think that u should move on too... if he wanted u to forget him.. sorry darling.. but take a hint...
life sucks sometimes.. im sorry.... and good luck... make the right decision... ....