Hi my friend how are you? you havent replied to any of my messages recently so im assuming you are avoiding me or got no credit...I hope you are well..Im finding it so hard to deal with my marriage breaking ..Its breaking my heart. I feel like a piece of me is missing..Have you got any idea what I can do Im sure I have tried everything.

May you be granted patience....that is the only thing now that seems is your option.

Very often, even if you feel you can't live without something and you try your utmost to obtain it, you still can't obtain the object of your desire. It could be in years to come, you will realize that object of your desire was not good for you. It's like the monkey with it's hand caught in the jar....unable to let go...only to be caught by the hunters.....

Now it seems like you can't breath, you are drowning and the future is quite black. Rest assured this will pass. I hope your husband realizes what wonderful precious jewels he has cast aside.

I hope you don't attribute his actions to Turkish culture. I have more than a few friends who are in successful mixed marriages (Turk and Western)that have lasted for over 10, 20 and 30 years.

Good luck....