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Maybe every woman can give birth to a child, but can every woman be a mother? and can every mother reach/attain her childs heart? When raising a child, the child always needs its mother and father and also the mother and father need each other. Children of families with a large number of siblings, in regards to love, attention and compassion are often neglected, is it enough just to fill their stomachs? For a mother with a lot of children it is often difficult to give enough attention.
Its not important to give birth to a lot of children, the important thing is how much love and compassion we can give them and how much we meet their needs materially and spiritually. My child is spiritually wealthy and I would like him/her to have a strong healthy character to face the unpleasantness of the outside world, and I know that, if we don’t provide our children with nice things, maybe others will provide them with unpleasant things, and my children may not realize these things are wrong, the important thing is to not insist on mistakes. Mothers and father if needs be from their children should know an apology, and the children should see that their parents are capable of making mistakes. I want to present my children to society as individuals with strong healthy characters. I will never be reluctant to read informative books about child raising and if needs be to require the help of a professional.
They will at some stages have psychological problems and I as a mother must know how Iam going to behave/react to these. It must be a wonderful feeling to be a mother, when raising our children I will always need you, will you be beside me?
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