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Why do European girls love Turkish man?
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28 Sep 2007 Fri 03:07 am |
Quoting caliptrix: I have some ideas but sure may look funny and unrealistic.
1. Because Turkish boys find European gilrs more desirable and try to do their best for them instead of for Turkish girls.
2. -I hope Europeans won' be offended- Turkish moral values are different from Europeans. Western world want their children more "open minded" and they generally miss the protecting point. Protect from all badnesses of social life. For example, bad addictions cigarette, alcohol, drugs etc. are much more common in Europe, I think it is because of that idea: "being open minded". It generally doesn't work here. We are conservative even though we don't have conservative ideas. And this conservatism makes us pay attention of relations with the people, especially about special relations like with the girlfriends.
I have never been in outside of Turkey but as far as I know from the movies from all over the world -especially Hollywood and European cinema-, this is the most important thing what girls want and boys never want: marry
For us, one of the most important thing is family, and without a marriage, you cannot be a real family. Being together without marriage is a sin according to the belief and also very bad thing for tranditional ideas. When I think and compare these all:
Turkish boys directly wants the girls from the other countries and they show their warm part, behave more sincerely, try to be more kind. Turkish boy always consider that at the end of the story, there will generally be a marriage. And for that reason, this relation must be some more serious (not a one-night-love or short term like in holywood or european movies generally). And when you add the points of the girls wish about the love as generally, this makes the Turkish boys more valued.
I am not sure, as I said this may sound some unrealistic. But day by day, I am getting to accept this stronglier. |
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Yes, you're right. Casual dating, summer flings, winter romances, one night stands, blind dates, speed dates...blah blah blah...is getting old. I hate this culture. It's hard to find a serious guy in the US. And if they are serious and desperate then something is wrong with them ex: like they're 50 yrs old bald or fat or something. Or they're 30 with shared custody of 2 kids and alimony payments.
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28 Sep 2007 Fri 03:29 am |
Quoting kat007:
+1000
Yes, you're right. Casual dating, summer flings, winter romances, one night stands, blind dates, speed dates...blah blah blah...is getting old. I hate this culture. It's hard to find a serious guy in the US. And if they are serious and desperate then something is wrong with them ex: like they're 50 yrs old bald or fat or something. Or they're 30 with shared custody of 2 kids and alimony payments. |
hmm... life is tough...
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28 Sep 2007 Fri 03:45 am |
Hey, I've decided to make a list. I love turkish men and I don't want to date an american one anymore. I think I told my friend that I've got Turkiritis. Or maybe Turk addiction hehe.
Reasons why western women LOVE turkish men:
1. They are charming and sweet
2. Lots of attention
3. Protective (most are Alpha males, not wussies)
4. They are expressive (tons and tons of love expressions)
5. They want a "serious" relationship
6. Most are marriage minded
7. Family oriented
8. Natural Poets (or maybe they took those poems from books lol)
9. The good ones are loyal and honest (and a good muslim)
10. Respect (they respect their elders, friends, and people)
11. They are loyal friends and do a lot to help
12. Persistent (generally don't give up when you turn them down. And it takes 4 times to break up with them.)
13. They make the girl feel like she is the most important girl in the world to him.
14. They are either very handsome or very ugly (so 50% of them are very handsome)
There are some bad Turkish men that don't fall into the above list but I think the odds are very good you can find one with the above qualities and character. That about SUMS it up of why we women love them .
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28 Sep 2007 Fri 05:32 am |
Quoting kat007: Hey, I've decided to make a list. I love turkish men and I don't want to date an american one anymore. I think I told my friend that I've got Turkiritis. Or maybe Turk addiction hehe.
Reasons why western women LOVE turkish men:
1. They are charming and sweet
2. Lots of attention
3. Protective (most are Alpha males, not wussies)
4. They are expressive (tons and tons of love expressions)
5. They want a "serious" relationship
6. Most are marriage minded
7. Family oriented
8. Natural Poets (or maybe they took those poems from books lol)
9. The good ones are loyal and honest (and a good muslim)
10. Respect (they respect their elders, friends, and people)
11. They are loyal friends and do a lot to help
12. Persistent (generally don't give up when you turn them down. And it takes 4 times to break up with them.)
13. They make the girl feel like she is the most important girl in the world to him.
14. They are either very handsome or very ugly (so 50% of them are very handsome)
There are some bad Turkish men that don't fall into the above list but I think the odds are very good you can find one with the above qualities and character. That about SUMS it up of why we women love them . |
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Well done!! I believe you have hit the nail on the head there .. I too won't date american men, due to their lack of respect, thinking free groping is a sport and many other things that would take too much room to mention ..
I giggled at all the points you made as I can see all of them in someone .. giggle .. yes turkish men are very expressive .. and definitely "Alpha Males" both of which I like in a man!!! wussies go away .. I am too much of an alpha female to have anything less than an alpha male .. roflmao .. definitely the protectiveness .. then there is the matter that they all teach you how to cook their favourite foods just the way they like them .. I don't believe men anywhere else in the world are taught to cook like that!!
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