General/Off-topic |
|
|
|
|
|
What kind of person would you fall in love with, if you ever did? Post Opinions!
|
| 50. |
01 Oct 2007 Mon 02:29 pm |
|
Quoting Gabbriy: Either way, I would most likely not fall in love with either a foreign man nor one of my same nationality.
I may be young, yes. But for some reason adults do not believeit that at about the age 16 that one cannot have that much knowledge or that many experiences, thus they are considered lower. Does that seem fair? |
Huh? It is not about being 'lower' 
I do believe you have many experiences.
I think you got here some opinions, to use or not to. It is up to you to decide. And thus you are not 'lower' you are a self-responsibel person in concerning this.
If you do not want to fall in love, then don't. But why did you started a thread in what kind of person would you ever fall in love with?
Experiences do have their own value and contribution.
But what is the most important is the way we manage to get some conclusions out of our experiences...
And at 16, as much experiences you would have, you have still much ahead of you in life to find out and value.
For example at 16 may be characteristic to state i would fall in love with a foreign man, than, couple of days later to say i would most likely not fall in love with either domestic, or foreign man. Which is a contradiction. So, at this age contradictions happen more frequently. It is not about being lower, again, it is about some of us here have also experienced the age of 16, with or without as much experiences... Like you experienced the age of 12, for example.
|
|
| 51. |
01 Oct 2007 Mon 03:24 pm |
|
We have all been 16 at one time and just like our parents, grandparents and great grandparents we tend to learn by our own mistakes. Even though our parents warn us or tell us by experience the rules of life, we each have to discover it ourselves. If you are the rare case Gab, that listens to everything your parents & religion teaches you, then more power to you.
We all have dreams of our futures and plans, however life can be rewarding and disappointing at times. Prepare for your future but also be realistic if your path in life takes a detour. Keeping to your values and morals you will be tried over and over. If religion is your rock, keep it close to you.
You will never be able to predict who you will fall in love with. Love is a mysterious thing. However, you can look for cetain attributes in a man like caring, humorous and giving.
I don't think anyone here is claiming that at 16 you have no knowledge or experience. I believe what people are trying to point out is, you have more knowledge and experience to gain if you believe you know the man you would fall in love with, will be a foreigner or not.
|
|
| 52. |
02 Oct 2007 Tue 10:47 pm |
|
Quoting Gabbriy: I may be young, yes. But for some reason adults do not believeit that at about the age 16 that one cannot have that much knowledge or that many experiences, thus they are considered lower. Does that seem fair? |
That is only because they have been sixteen too, and know that things are so 'changeable' at that time, and how different they look upon things now.
But as was said before, if you were really mature, you would stop being concerned about maturity. It even seems as if youre worried whether it's clear to others or not. Who cares?
It has nothing to do with 'adults' seeing you as 'lower'. All they do is remember their days of that age, and laugh at how they though they had figured it all out.
They dont call it 'Sweet sixteen' for nothing, dear.
--
A second thing you might want to give a thought. Do you really think it is possible to have a 'type' to fall in love with? Don't you think it is something that either just hits you at first sight (and have had no chance to actually think about it), or you fall for someone you've known for a long time, and only yet have come to see things you didnt see before?
It is risky to think what type of boy you would ever fall for. Because the only thing it could possibly lead to, is affection for someone just because they meet the standarts you had set up in your mind rationality before.
Maybe your eyes will be set on all the foreign boys at a party, just because you qualify them as 'your type'. But then you take the risk of overlooking that one sweet american boy who might just have all inside him what really matters to you. But you forget to look at him.
There may be a lot of rationality (needed) in relationships and marriages, but love itself is a matter of the heart.
|
|
| 54. |
03 Oct 2007 Wed 12:29 am |
|
Quoting Deli_kizin: Teaschip in a more mature way 
- |
tea  when did you get mature so quick? 
|
|
| 55. |
03 Oct 2007 Wed 08:19 pm |
|
Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting Deli_kizin: Teaschip in a more mature way
- |
tea when did you get mature so quick? |
I dunno! :-S
|
|
| 56. |
03 Oct 2007 Wed 11:22 pm |
|
I think that nobody is taking this thread seriously !!
|
|
| 57. |
03 Oct 2007 Wed 11:26 pm |
|
Quoting Dilara: I think that nobody is taking this thread seriously !!
|
thank GOD!
|
|
| 58. |
09 Oct 2007 Tue 01:36 am |
|
I never had a sweet 16.... heh anyways. This thread was not meant to find out about love really, just to find out why others feel so strongly about it. People try to persuade me daily that love exists even for me, but I've yet to see something to truely persuade me. And in being so broken, it's hard to feel that way about someone or even the subhect anymore. I used to be an extremely passionate person, that was sadly addicted to sex love romance and everything that comes with it(I'm still a virgin, but I'm still breaking out of the addiction even though it's hard to feel much anything anymore)
So yeah, hope u all had fun....I'm guessing there's not gonna be hardly any if at all more ppl here, so I guess just continue on my newest threat should be on the first page last time I checked. I guess this post will end?
|
|
|
)