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To refraise this, lets talk about love.
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29 Sep 2007 Sat 11:02 pm |
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Quoting Deli_kizin: I personally really dont see the point of staying a virgin till you get married.
Some women (or men) simply can't have sex. İt just doesnt work. What if you marry someone, with the wish to have children, and it turns out the person you're married to can't have sex? Wouldn't that destroy your marriage?
What if your partner is sexual dysfunctional, would'nt you rather have known that before you married him or her?
It is naive to think sexual intercourse isn't an important part of a healthy relationship.
I think the body should be given wise and in trust and not just to anyone, but keeping it just for 'one person', I don't see the reason.
Who knows how long your marriage will last? Maybe you will marry someone new. İn that case, it wasn't about having sex with 'the one', in that case it was about having sex after signing a paper. |
well, i do hope that two people who wish to marry (lets say forever) should tell each other of their sex problems, its not fair to keep it in secret.
second, you fell in love with someone, and you wanna check his sexual abilities, and if he/she doesnt prove your expectations does it mean you dump a person although you are in love with? e.g. some men have stress at their first intercourses, but they improve later, would you dump him after a few intercourses?
i do understand that sex is very important, but...
what if your partner had an accident and is not able to satisfy you anymore, will you dump him?
what if you fly from one flower to another trying to find your ideal mate?
and what can guarantee that your marriage will last long even your partner is an ideal in bed? did you mean that sex gives you more security than a signed paper?
a signed paper atl least secures you in a legal aspect.
for me its ideal to tell everything sincerely before the marriage and to be faithful to your half in disease and health, in poverty and welth.
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29 Sep 2007 Sat 11:22 pm |
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Quoting Trudy: Quoting femme_fatal: six continents
four oceans, basta!
this is the only truth! whoever speaks against this is an Earth hater!
and i will ask moderators to ban such a disrespectful person! 
cheers  |
Sorry, didn't know you were going to be mad at me....  |
this time i let it go
well, at least from now on you know the only one truth 
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30 Sep 2007 Sun 06:52 am |
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Quoting femme_fatal: 
leelu
that is funny
well, eurasia makes more sense than euroafrasia or europe and asia
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I fell off my chair whenI read euroafrasia .. I was like where do they teach this kind of geograpy .. 
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30 Sep 2007 Sun 06:55 am |
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Quoting femme_fatal: this time i let it go
well, at least from now on you know the only one truth |
Yes Ma'am!! 
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01 Oct 2007 Mon 02:08 pm |
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Hmmm very interesting how near to none of all of your posts resemble to the topic. As for love, I believe that no matter what circumstance, you will love that person no matter what problems they may have outside of how much they love you in return. Moving from man to man to find your soul mate or discrasing one for bad sex is a disgrace to one's body, one's heart, and even one's soul.
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01 Oct 2007 Mon 05:41 pm |
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Quoting Gabbriy: Hmmm very interesting how near to none of all of your posts resemble to the topic. As for love, I believe that no matter what circumstance, you will love that person no matter what problems they may have outside of how much they love you in return. Moving from man to man to find your soul mate or discrasing one for bad sex is a disgrace to one's body, one's heart, and even one's soul. |
Lucky for you Gabbriy that you have solved life's problems at such a young age. The rest of us seem to still be floundering in the mystery's of life.
Seriously though, I don't think many people truly know what love is until they get in there 20's. I look back at the silly romances I had from the time I was 16 to 22 and I laugh to think that maybe i thought I loved any of them at the time. Life experiences are the ultimate education and the only way to be educated by these experiences is through time. I would discourage nearly every young person to not marry until they are at least 25. Give yourself a better chance at a happy and full life by knowing who you are as an individual first before compromising part of your identity to become part of a couple. I can't think of a bigger mistake that a person can make than marrying too young.
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01 Oct 2007 Mon 08:41 pm |
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Quoting KeithL: Lucky for you Gabbriy that you have solved life's problems at such a young age. The rest of us seem to still be floundering in the mystery's of life.
Seriously though, I don't think many people truly no what love is until they get in there 20's. I look back at the silly romances I had from the time I was 16 to 22 and I laugh to think that maybe i thought I loved any of them at the time. Life experiences are the ultimate education and the only way to be educated by these experiences is through time. I would discourage nearly every young person to not marry until they are at least 25. Give yourself a better chance at a happy and full life by knowing who you are as an individual first before compromising part of your identity to become part of a couple. I can't think of a bigger mistake that a person can make than marrying too young. |
Wise words Keith 
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01 Oct 2007 Mon 10:56 pm |
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I agree with Deli-kizin...I would prefer to "drive the car a little, before I buy it". And no, I am not comparing men to cars but I certainly would NOT by a car that didn't work properly.
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01 Oct 2007 Mon 10:59 pm |
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Quoting Elisabeth: I agree with Deli-kizin...I would prefer to "drive the car a little, before I buy it". And no, I am not comparing men to cars but I certainly would NOT by a car that didn't work properly.
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and dump the car when its broken
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01 Oct 2007 Mon 11:00 pm |
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or trade the mini-van in for the two-seater...
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01 Oct 2007 Mon 11:01 pm |
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Quoting femme_fatal: Quoting Elisabeth: I agree with Deli-kizin...I would prefer to "drive the car a little, before I buy it". And no, I am not comparing men to cars but I certainly would NOT by a car that didn't work properly.
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and dump the car when its broken |
You better believe it! A broken car is no good to me!! Especially with so many new and shiney cars to pick from.
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