Quoting astry1:

ok let me try this another way!!

It could happen that I can not get money by March you know.
When you divorce you do not get instant money it might take weeks even months to settle.
I just want you to know and understand this darling.
Why could we not live where you are now for the time being until we could get together enough money for our own house?
Perhaps you already explained this and I missed it .
I know four people in one house is not an ideal situation but as a temporary one wouldnt it be better than not at all?I love you very much and we need to be honest and clear about everything.