What do you think about this question?What can be your selection?

...easy...I choose both!

Hey why does it have to be one or the other? Aslan is right. You take both!

I am trying to have both of them but its not easy..You are plannig something but everything goes cross..But I havent accepted easy way in my life,I like forcing every chance,every detail for smtgh to reach..I know that it/she/smtgh worths everything..I am sure..Life is short and you must enjoy your life(with him/her/...)

Yes, she may mean and worth everything, but as time will be passing by and passion will start to fade, then you ll realize that you gave everything up just to be with her. And then you ll start blaming her and yourself and you ll feel trapped in your own decisions.

Wouldn't it be better if you could find the golden balance between her and everything else that might be important to you? Such as career, friends etc?

I still vote for both love and career

I think maybe in years gone by it was one of the other and probably still is in some parts of the world in fact i know this is the case.However it is becoming easier to have both things just as long as you are both willing to do your equal share.what i mean by that is,its difficult for one person to do everything themselves i.e take care of children and work fulltime but i know it can be done.My mother did it with me and my sister but my dad took care of us at night when she was working as well as working full time and during the day we either went to grandparents or close family friends.This worked out well for us.I think some women would rather stay at home and take care of a family because they find that is what they want for their lives and some women don't want a family at all they would rather have a career but in my opinion with some careful planning and team work both is possible.

Answers were nice..Everybody wants to have both of them but I asked if you need prefer one of them?
Well,February month started..I must plan my future..I started to search job and my special girl is very ill..
Also another question for you..Everybody loves their family,it is certain..If you love someone who is leaving in another country..Can you leave your family for 4-5 years for your love?Is it possible?Waiting replies...

i also prefer both....she should be thoughful and she should help u if she is a real darling and friend...freshman remember this ''her başarılı erkegin arkasında bir kadın vardır''mıydı neydi.anyway....there r a woman behind every successful men

both...want both...may i not ask for more???

You can certainly have both! I enjoy my career and with out it I would be a bore. I need the mental stimulation much the same as I need sex Then after all that I need physical exercise - it all keeps the body and mind healthy and keeps the forthcoming years at bay What I am saying is that you need to fulfilling life to give love and receive love otherwise life becomes a chore

You shouldn't need to sacrifice one for the other.
If the love is right then there should be no reason not to pursue the career you have chosen. You cannot live on love alone - the love should enrich and enhance the rest - not replace it
Love may fade/end, so you need to be happy with the career and the environment you are in.
Family and friends shouldn't be abandoned in favour of love. If too many compromises or sacrifices are made then it can hasten the end of the love - becoz of loneliness and frustrations at being away from everything familiar.
Really there is no one solution - every case is different.