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women and bad boys
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03 Jan 2008 Thu 04:45 pm |
Nice article kafesteki kus. I can think of a few women on this site who need to make finding a NICE guy, or better yet - learn to be without a man, a new years resolution.
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03 Jan 2008 Thu 05:53 pm |
Quoting Elisabeth: I can think of a few women on this site who need to make finding a NICE guy, or better yet - learn to be without a man, a new years resolution.
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+10000!!
I have friends who are equally addicted to being loved. They go straight from one relationship to another without pausing for thought or considering if they are even happy. Maybe it is a need to be needed
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03 Jan 2008 Thu 05:57 pm |
I think it is sad to think that some adults have never been without a mate for an extented period of time. I remember when I was OMG....DON'T SAY IT....ALONE for a period to time. Everyone tried to "fix me up" or tell me not to worry...that "my ship would come in". I don't think any adult would recognize if the right ship ever came in if there are constantly ships in the harbor! It is a wonderful feeling to stand on your own two feet. To have your own home and really get to know yourself...but that's just me!
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03 Jan 2008 Thu 09:29 pm |
Quoting Elisabeth: I think it is sad to think that some adults have never been without a mate for an extented period of time. I remember when I was OMG....DON'T SAY IT....ALONE for a period to time. Everyone tried to "fix me up" or tell me not to worry...that "my ship would come in". I don't think any adult would recognize if the right ship ever came in if there are constantly ships in the harbor! It is a wonderful feeling to stand on your own two feet. To have your own home and really get to know yourself...but that's just me! |
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04 Jan 2008 Fri 12:23 am |
Porto,i got lost in your link)))fabulous!!!Thanx)))
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04 Jan 2008 Fri 01:01 am |
kush ))), Alameda, you are welcome.
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06 Jan 2008 Sun 01:33 pm |
I think women get attracted to "bad boys" as sort of a rescue mission. They see the lost, sensitive soul and want to "rescue" it. Also, it could be sort of a misdirected "mothering" instinct.
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06 Jan 2008 Sun 04:53 pm |
Quoting alameda: I think women get attracted to "bad boys" as sort of a rescue mission. They see the lost, sensitive soul and want to "rescue" it. Also, it could be sort of a misdirected "mothering" instinct. |
I'm not so sure about this Alameda . I think the reason why some women prefer bad boys is the same as why some men prefer bad girls. They SEEM to be more sexually attractive.
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06 Jan 2008 Sun 08:39 pm |
Quoting catwoman: Quoting alameda: I think women get attracted to "bad boys" as sort of a rescue mission. They see the lost, sensitive soul and want to "rescue" it. Also, it could be sort of a misdirected "mothering" instinct. |
I'm not so sure about this Alameda . I think the reason why some women prefer bad boys is the same as why some men prefer bad girls. They SEEM to be more sexually attractive. |
Yes, that probably is one of the factors, but the salvation probably one other factor. I don't think abused women find being beaten sexually attractive, but most reports indicate the abuser is "so nice" when he's not being abusive. I think some of these women are thinking they can change them with their "love".
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08 Jan 2008 Tue 10:35 am |
Quoting alameda: Yes, that probably is one of the factors, but the salvation probably one other factor. I don't think abused women find being beaten sexually attractive, but most reports indicate the abuser is "so nice" when he's not being abusive. I think some of these women are thinking they can change them with their "love". |
So you think that abused women dream to "save" their abusers? That's not what I heard from them!
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