Unfortunately it is a risk that women take when marrying into a culture such as this, where men have the most rights. Love is not enough, calculation of the risks should be applied!
I think this has nothing to do with culture but rather with the law. When marrying someone, one does that according to a certain law therefore for divorce/ child custody the law that is applied is the same as the law that was applied for marriage.
To give an example, since this is a recurrent problem in lebanon, 2 lebanese who were married in cyprus under the chypriot law, in case of dicorce the court dont follow the lebanese law but rather the chypriot law. It is a contract like any other contract and in order to break it you follow the law under which it was established at the first place.
So if the lady go married in dubai following the emirates law, in case of divorce , child custody, inheritance, etc etc they will follow the emirati law! It is that simple and has nothing to do with culture. Now to say that the law is affected by the culture that is true.
As for adultary, one has to abide with the laws of the country they live in. She took the risk and she has to pay the price.
I dont say that this is correct but knowing where you live why take risks!
I dont go live in saudia for example and walk without the head cover and when arrested I shout "bad culture" or whatever. I dont go there at the first place!
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