Quoting VERYconfused:

could someone translate this for me please?

Abi please don't mention this to Memo because it will make big and bigger problems for us again but I wanted you to know how bad he has treated me and my family. I wish I could explain to Anne because I'm sure she thinks I have been upsetting him but I have done my best to make him welcome here. You know as well as anyone else that Memo is very agressive and gets upset very easy.


Abi lutfen Memo'ya sana yazdigimdan bahsetme, bu problemleri daha da buyutur, ama onun bana ve aileme ne kadar kotu davrandigini bilmeni istedim. Keske Anneye aciklayabilseydim, cunku eminim ki Memoyu uzdugumuzu saniyordur, ama onun hosnut olmasi icin elimden gelenin en iyisini yaptim. Ama sende biliyorsun, Memo cok sinirli ve kolayca uzuluyor.



Nearly every week he says something very bad about our country, culture, religion or family and my mum never says anything but on Thursday she calmly asked him if he would stop because we never talk bad about anything to do with Turkey, Muslims, etc. Afterwards he said he would never talk to my mum again. I said that was too extreme. My family have done everything for him but he always complains and this is not the Memo I knew in Turkey. On Friday he was shouting and swearing so loud and I asked him to stop because I didn't want my mum to hear so he hit me in the head. My mum came running upstairs and told me to leave the bedroom. He then shouted that he wanted to leave and walk. I begged him not to go but my mum said 'if he wants to go, let him go, you can't keep him in prison'. So he left! He left from 6 pm and was gone all night. I drove round everywhere. I went to the hospital, I thought something bad could have happened. I was sick many times. My sister and mum were crying. My Dad couldn't believe he would do this to us. I wanted to call the police but they say you have to wait 24 hours and also if I did call the police, they could take his visa off him.


Neredeyse her hafta bizim ulkemiz, kulturumuz, dinimiz veya ailem hakkinda kotu seyler soylerdi ve annem hicbirsey soylemezdi fakat persembe gunu sakince eger onun buna bir son verebilecegini sordu cunku biz Turkiye ve muslumanlar hakkinda hic kotu birsey konusmuyorduk. Daha sonra Annemle bir daha konusmayacagini soyledi. Bende ona bunun cok fazla oldugunu soyledim. Ailem Memo icin herseyi yapti ama herzaman sikayet ediyordu, bu Turkiyede tanidigim Memo degil. Cuma gunu yuksek sesle bagirip cagiriyordu, ona durmasini soyledim, cunku annemin bunu duymasini istemiyordum, sonra bana kafamdan vurdu. Annem kosarak geldi ve odayi terketmemi soyledi. Sonra disari cikip yurumek istedigini bagirarak soyledi. Ona gitmemesi icin yalvardim, ama annem "eger gitmek istiyorsa, izin ver gitsin, onu hucrede saklayamazsin" dedi. Sonra ayrildi. oglenden sonra 6 da gitti ve tum gece yoktu. Etrafta surdum, hastahaneye baktim kotu birsey olmus olabilir diye, bir kac defa fenalastim. Annem ve kizkardesim agliyordu ve babam Memonun bunu bize nasil yaptigina inanmiyordu. Polisi aramak istedim ama polis bana 24 saat beklememiz gerektigini ve eger polisi ararsak vizesini iptal edebileceklerini soyledi.

At 6 a.m I was back in my car, driving everywhere and I checked at the hospital again. I had a panick attack in the hospital because they thought they had seen him but then they told me they hadn't.

Sabah 6 da arabama tekrar bindim ve hertarafi gezindim. Hastaneye tekrar baktim. Hastanede bir panik atak gecirdim cunku bana gorduklerini soylediler ama sonra yanildiklarini onun olmadigini soylediler.


At 10.30 a.m. on Saturday my mum called me to tell me he was back. I drove home and tried to talk to him. He told me he had stayed in an old couples home. Later last night he told me he had lied and he had stayed in a couple's home near my Grandma. They are a dirty, rough and very bad family. Everyone knows them in my Grandma's village and when she finds out, she will be shamed. He told that family that my mum had put him on the street and told him to never come back!!!!!!! My mum has NEVER said that to him and she NEVER would. He has blackened my mums name and he has spoken so bad to her. It has broken my heart and my mum is scared in her own home. I don't know what is wrong with him. We all understand that he wants a job and money and we all feel sad that he misses you all but that does not make it ok to cause this much pain and worry.


sabah 10:30 da annem aradi ve geri geldigini soyledi. Eve surdum ve onunla konusmaya calistim. Bana yasli bir ciftin evinde kaldigini soyledi. Sonra gecen gece bana yalan soyledigini ve Buyukannemin bir kac ev otesindeki bir ciftin evinde kaldigini soyledi. Kirli kaba ve cok kotu bir ailedir. Onlari buyukannemin kasabasinda herkes tanir eger buyuk annem ogrenirse cok utanacak cunku Memo onlara annemin onu sokaga attigini ve bir daha gelmemesini soylemis!!!!!! Annem boyle birsey soylemedi ve hicbirzaman soylemezde. Annemin adini karaladi ve ona cok kotu konustu. kalbim cok kirildi ve kendi evinde korkuyor annem. Onun ne problemi oldugunu anlamiyorum. Hepimiz bir is ve para kazanmak istedigini ve sizi cok ozledigini anliyoruz, ama bu butun olanlari aciyi ve endiseyi gecerli kilmaz.

When he saw how ill I was with worry he said, 'Sorry but it's all your mums fault!' I can't believe he really thinks this. She has done everything for him. She loves him and he treats her like shit. I wish baba could say something to him but I'm scared that if Memo knows I sent this to you, HE WILL KILL ME! I pray to GOD that anne and baba don't think we are doing anything wrong because I swear on my family's life we have tried everything and he has psychological problems. I wish I didn't love him this much and I wish you could all help.


Benim bu endiseyle ne kadar hasta oldugumu gordukten sonra "uzgunum ama hepsi annenin hatasi!" dedi bana. Bunu dusunebildigine gercekten inanamiyorum. Annem onun icin herseyi yapti. Annem onu seviyor ve o anneme cok kotu davraniyor. Keske baba ona birsey soyleyebilseydi ama Memonun bunu sana gonderdigimi ogrenmesinden korkuyorum, BENI OLDUREBILIR! Dua ediyorum ki anne ve baba ona kotu davrandigimizi dusunmuyordur. Cunku ailemin hayati uzerine yemin ederim ki herseyi denedik onu mutlu etmek icin, Memonun psikolojik problemleri var. Keske onu bu kadar sevmeseydim ve keske hepiniz yardimci olabilseydiniz


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Quoting VERYconfused:

could someone translate this for me please?

Abi please don't mention this to Memo because it will make big and bigger problems for us again but I wanted you to know how bad he has treated me and my family. I wish I could explain to Anne because I'm sure she thinks I have been upsetting him but I have done my best to make him welcome here. You know as well as anyone else that Memo is very agressive and gets upset very easy.

Nearly every week he says something very bad about our country, culture, religion or family and my mum never says anything but on Thursday she calmly asked him if he would stop because we never talk bad about anything to do with Turkey, Muslims, etc. Afterwards he said he would never talk to my mum again. I said that was too extreme. My family have done everything for him but he always complains and this is not the Memo I knew in Turkey. On Friday he was shouting and swearing so loud and I asked him to stop because I didn't want my mum to hear so he hit me in the head. My mum came running upstairs and told me to leave the bedroom. He then shouted that he wanted to leave and walk. I begged him not to go but my mum said 'if he wants to go, let him go, you can't keep him in prison'. So he left! He left from 6 pm and was gone all night. I drove round everywhere. I went to the hospital, I thought something bad could have happened. I was sick many times. My sister and mum were crying. My Dad couldn't believe he would do this to us. I wanted to call the police but they say you have to wait 24 hours and also if I did call the police, they could take his visa off him.

At 6 a.m I was back in my car, driving everywhere and I checked at the hospital again. I had a panick attack in the hospital because they thought they had seen him but then they told me they hadn't.

At 10.30 a.m. on Saturday my mum called me to tell me he was back. I drove home and tried to talk to him. He told me he had stayed in an old couples home. Later last night he told me he had lied and he had stayed in a couple's home near my Grandma. They are a dirty, rough and very bad family. Everyone knows them in my Grandma's village and when she finds out, she will be shamed. He told that family that my mum had put him on the street and told him to never come back!!!!!!! My mum has NEVER said that to him and she NEVER would. He has blackened my mums name and he has spoken so bad to her. It has broken my heart and my mum is scared in her own home. I don't know what is wrong with him. We all understand that he wants a job and money and we all feel sad that he misses you all but that does not make it ok to cause this much pain and worry.

When he saw how ill I was with worry he said, 'Sorry but it's all your mums fault!' I can't believe he really thinks this. She has done everything for him. She loves him and he treats her like shit. I wish baba could say something to him but I'm scared that if Memo knows I sent this to you, HE WILL KILL ME! I pray to GOD that anne and baba don't think we are doing anything wrong because I swear on my family's life we have tried everything and he has psychological problems. I wish I didn't love him this much and I wish you could all help.

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Quoting sonunda:

But she loves him!