do you really miss me? or are you just being nice?

 My try

 Beni gerçekten özledin mi yoksa sadece nazik oluyor musun?

thanks again sonunda.

I hope you get the right answer!

sonunda  he wrote back beni gercekten ozledin mi  yada sadece nazik oluyor musun? nededigini anlamadim ozur.

i think that means sorry i dont understand, am i right in thinking that please.

then he wrote sen benim herseyimsin.

i think that means to me you mean every thing? am i right with that one please.

thank you if you can help me.  

 Yes,he says ´I don´t understand what you´re saying.´ (perhaps my rubbish Turkish or he doesn´t understand what you´re asking)

Then ´you are my everything´

thanks again for your help i was right in how i read it, i wish i could write it as good as i read he he he

I would understand what sonunda wrote although it´s not completely correct.

Maybe he will understand if you write it this way:

"Beni gerçekten özledin mi yoksa sadece kibarlıktan mı öyle söylüyorsun?"

Thanks for correcting my mistakes mltm.   It´s very helpful.

thank you very much mltm.