hello everybody. i am from serbia, i am 20 years old. i have boyfriend in ankara, he is 21 years old. he is in army now, in izmir. we are together since last year, and we love eachother a lot lot. i know that we are still too young for marriage, but he and his family keep talking about it. they talk about it since june 2008. should i take it for serious, because i heard that turkish man are serious when talking about marriage? they say i dont have to change religion, which is very good for me, and they love me a lot, and i tink they want me to go there and live whit them, but i am too young for marriage and  i dont wonna luse him, i have never met a man like him, and all abotu him makes me so excited and happy, near him i feel so peacefull and loved, no metter all diferences etc. religion... i love him a lot. he comes home in july 2009, i hope we will see eachother then, but untill then... i am still little comfused. the important thing is that he doesnt have a father, just mother and brother, and they are all modern people.

please, you turkish and other people here on site, some advice would help. how can i understand them, should i get it seriouse, and not just jokeing? i know u cant know it in real, but some advice about all situation would help.

cok cok tesekkuler

Have you even met this boy? You´ve known each other for a year and already thinking about marriage? Do you speak Turkish? How do you know that his family is talking about marriage - because he told you so?

Finish your education first, get a job - maybe in Turkey, learn Turkish, spend a year or two living in the same city as your boyfriend and then decide if you want to get married. He is 21, so he´s not educated yet, doesn´t have a job - how do you want to have a family in this kind of situation?????

If this is true love, it will survive. If it is not, then you better not rush to marriage!

thank a lot, i agree but still young and just need advices

No problem. Wish you the best.