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Death in Turkey.
1.       britturk
625 posts
 27 Oct 2008 Mon 08:28 pm

Hi a dear friend of mine has just lost his mother. She passed away last night and I was wondering what the usual customs are when somebody dies. Most of the ladies family live abroad is it likely the family in Turkey will wait for other relatives to fly over or will the burial be done the following day or can it be delayed???? Also is there anything I can send like flowers this is quite common in England so would just like to know. Any information very much appreciated.

2.       azade
1606 posts
 27 Oct 2008 Mon 08:48 pm

Baþýnýz saðolsun.

 

It may vary from region to region, but it is common that all of the family gather in the time after and mourn together. They are usually not left alone at any time.

3.       alameda
3499 posts
 28 Oct 2008 Tue 12:22 am

 

Quoting britturk

Hi a dear friend of mine has just lost his mother. She passed away last night and I was wondering what the usual customs are when somebody dies. Most of the ladies family live abroad is it likely the family in Turkey will wait for other relatives to fly over or will the burial be done the following day or can it be delayed???? Also is there anything I can send like flowers this is quite common in England so would just like to know. Any information very much appreciated.

 

 It would depend somewhat on the family, but the burials are done as fast as possible. I was in one home where there was a death in the early morning and the buriel was done at 2:00 in the afternoon.

 

The immediate family is not left alone, they do not cook for at least week. People stay in the house and recite prayers all week.

4.       Roswitha
4132 posts
 28 Oct 2008 Tue 02:54 am

Throughout the ages in Anatolia, many different rituals regarding death and burial have been applied. Types of graves have differed. Graves under the floors of houses, wooden rooms, tumuli, chamber-like graves, rock-tombs, sarcophagi, domed or conical tombs (turbe, kumbet) and mausoleums are some places where the dead have been laid.

Although it is difficult, death is considered to be as a natural part or aspect of life. There are many people who prepare themselves for death by putting necessary amount of money for funerals in their bank accounts, keeping winding sheets ready, or buying land in a cemetery in advance. Dying as martyrs is an honorable thing. In Islam, it is believed that martyrs go directly to heaven.

When somebody dies, the corpse is laid on a bed in a separate room, the head facing the direction of Mecca, eyelids closed, the big toes are tied to each other and the two arms rest on both sides next to the body. Burial has to take place as soon as possible during the daytime. If somebody dies in the late afternoon, he is buried the next day. The corpse might rest for a period of time in a cool place or a mortuary but only if there are close relatives coming from a far away place.

According to religious belief, if somebody is buried without an ablution, he is not allowed to enter heaven. Therefore, dead people have to be washed by authorized people, and always women by a woman, men by a man. Meanwhile the death is declared from a mosque minaret by a muezzin with some words from the Koran together with his name, funeral time and place. After the ablution the corpse is dressed in a white shroud, put in a wooden coffin covered with a green piece of cloth. A martyr´s coffin is covered with the Turkish flag. The coffin is carried to the table outside in the courtyard of a mosque on people´s shoulders before prayers. Nobody stands in front of the funeral procession and people in the street stand up and salute the funeral motionless and in silence.

While the coffin rests guarded on the table outside, people perform their regular prayers. From within the mosque, following the prayers, they all come out and line up in front of the coffin to take part in the funeral service under the leadership of the Imam. Women are not allowed to join this service. At the end of the service, the Imam asks people what they thought of the deceased and answers are always positive: "He was good. May God bless him. Mercy be upon his soul, etc."

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