This is a Turkish proverb.
When conversing with people, even if we get enraged, we have to be very careful. In our conversations, as a principle, we must take pains to not use bad and unethical vocabulary (words).
Why? Because knife and bullet wounds heal (pass) with time, but wounds from words, in the course of a lifetime don´t leave the relationships, they always remain there, continously agonize you and those opposite you, as a result, in this way you/we pay the price for it.
What do you think?
In Turkish language = Ãnsanlar ile konuþurken, çok öfkelensek bile, çok dikkatli olmak zorundayýz.Konuþmalarýmýzda, prensip olarak, kötü ve etik dýþý sözcükler ( kelimeler) kullanmamaya özen göstermeliyiz.
Neden mi? Çünkü, býçak ya da kurþun yarasý zamanla geçer; ama dil yarasý hayat boyu beyninizden çýkmaz, orada hep kalýr, size ve karþý tarafa sürekli acý verir, sonuç olarak bunun bedelini þu ya da bu þekilde ödersiniz/öderiz.
Edited (2/26/2009) by yilgun-7
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