i need to go to Icmeler. I will go 3rd May for 2 weeks. It will be nice if you could be there also as Laura and Oscar are getting married. Please try to come. I dont know what your plans are but i need to know what is happening with us

 Ãçmeler´e gitmem gerekiyor.3 Mayýsta 2 haftalýðýna gideceðim. Laura ve Oscar´Ã½n evlenmelerinden dolayý sen de orada olabilsen çok iyi olur. Lütfen gelmeye çalýþ. Planlarýnýn ne olduðunu bilmiyorum ama bize ne olduðunu bilmem gerekiyor.

 Maybe :

Icmelere getmeliyim ?

Just a sugestion ^^

Shouldn´t that be ´gitmeliyim´ ?

"gitmeliyim" or "gitmem gerekiyor"

there is no verb as "getmek"

I said that!

I know dear, relax

I just wanted to say "gitmem gerekiyor" is as correct as "gitmeliyim" because I think that was the thing she was trying to ask, like "why not gitmeliyim but gitmem gerekiyor"

That´s what kurt said originally!

Does ´gitmem lazým´ work too?

yes, since she gave another suggestion I said previous one was also ok. why are you so nervous these days?

yes, gitmem lazým is also right. there is no significant difference between

gitmeliyim

gitmem lazým

gitmem gerekiyor

I think this was discussed short time ago in language forum. Actually we generally use them interchangeably.