Aslinda terk eden deðil., terk edilendir terk eden

I´m still a learner, but let me try - I think it can mean something like this:

The one who leaves doesn´t leave, in fact he is left (left alone / abandoned).

(but, of course, it will be better to wait for someone better in Turkish language / and probably in English too )

My attempt at this play on words:

Aslýnda terk eden deðil, terk edilendir terk eden

Actually, it is not the one leaving, it is the one who causes them to leave that is the one left. 

 I am a learner and a bit confused at this translation.

(1) ´Eden´ is a present participle which denotes the subject. So ´Seven adam´  > the man who is loving.

(2) ´Edenlendir´ the object of the action.

Hence to me the translation seems to be:-

"Actually it is not the person who is abandoning, [but] the person who is left in a state of abandonment that is abandoning"

Please can someone comment?????????????????????

Tazx1 [I am back after a long absence]

 My try

Not the one leaving but the one who is left actually leaves.

my try

In fact, not the left,but the leaver is deserted.

Thanks everyone! I was also confused by this and so I thought I would ask for help as I am not experienced enough in my Turkish to understand! 

The original of this sentence is:

Aslýnda giden deðil, kalandýr terkeden --> Actually the one who left is not the one who went, he/she is the one who remained.

 Should the end word ´terkeden´ not be ... ´terk-edilen-di´ ??????????????

So, > It is not the one going, [rather] the one left, [that] is in the state of  abandonment < 

Thanks folks ......... this site is living up to its reputation.

Where has Melek07 disappeared to while I was away .... Angel! Are you there?

Tazx1