there is a song that i keep hearing but never manage to get the singer, its called

gelme istemem I think anyone know the guy who sings it

I do not. I know Arabic Groove music.  Some superior Arabic singers:

*Natacha Atlas___song : ´Kidda´

*Abdy_____song : ´Galbi´

*Dania_____song ´Leiley´

These are the best songs.

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The only "gelme istemem" I know is "Ölürsem kabrime gelme istemem" (If I die do not come to my grave, I don´t want it). A very old song, in the format gazel/uzun hava so I don´t really think this is what you are looking for but anyway, have a look:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b0_4LGTEQqA;

if this is the correct one, it has been sung by many, most notably by arabesque singers Müslüm Gürses and İbrahim Tatlıses.

I cant get into youtube

How about fizy? You can also use this service for searchin titles. (You can change your DNS to Open Google DNS or add its ip to your dns hosts file to be able to view youtube btw.)

http://fizy.com/s/12b8eu

thats beyond me mate im your typical dumb blonde when it comes to computer stuff but thanks anyway

There are tons of tutorials/videos showing how to do it in under 1 minute and in about 10 clicks, I think this may go a tad beyond dumbness (Blondness is a saving grace though so I´ll cut it here)

Anyway; if it is a terribly slow, gloomy, oriental/arabesque sounding song then it is probably "Ölürsem kabrime gelme istemem", sung by those I have mentioned in my previous posts and many others.

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Alican Saygin´s song to me was by Sagopa Kajmer ´Atesten gomlek´.

This has nothing to do with Deli´s question