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Dating foreigners - ungreatful women of Turkey
1.       thehandsom
7403 posts
 04 Jul 2010 Sun 12:50 pm

... to date foreigners show, in fact, it is sometimes cultural differences that make relationships work.

"Turkish men can never reach the standards of foreign men in chivalry and gallantry (oha!!!). When they exhaust their love, Turkish men will start fights for stupid reasons and expect their girlfriends to leave them (so what? we all know that creating arguments without a reason is a signal!!  ). They do not show the courage of saying: ‘let’s break up, my love for you had ended.’ But a foreigner will not drag his feet. Foreigners can finish relationships politely without offending the woman’s pride," ..
The concept of jealousy is different with foreign men, ..."When you dress up for a night out, foreign men won’t say, ‘you look beautiful, everyone will look at you, change your dress.’  (if the men dont talk like that  then Turkish girls start thinking ´ oh he is not in love with me anymore´ They’d rather say, ‘My love, you are beautiful. I understand one more time why I have fallen in love with you.’ They always know how to make a woman feel special."

When a Turkish woman meets up with her male friends, a foreigner would not ask whether one among them is a former boyfriend or not, ...(what is wrong with that?!! why would that question offend anybody? eh? )

... I am not the daughter of this, the friend of that and the former lover of that. I can be arrogant, curious, crazy or calm. ...

"No one can gossip about us. I feel that what we live is more genuine, more peaceful and real. There are no rules like never kiss on a first date, saying I love you is problematic or being introduced to the family means marriage,"...

..."They know to thank and apologize (no need to be formal between partners. do you?) . In case of a disagreement, they discuss it in a civilized manner. There are no big quarrels. And it is not the end of the world at the end of the discussion,"...

"Why are you calling the cab when you have your boyfriend next to you?’...."Foreigners see women as individuals. They are loyal. "..

..
"Turkish men are not at peace with their manhood; (these are some grumblings from a dissatisfied,  insensible,  oblivious, self-centered,  unappreciative, ungrateful woman!!!{#emotions_dlg.voodoodoll}) be it in daily life or in bed. Foreign men, on the other hand, are curious to discover life as well as the woman they are with,"......

"Turkish girls know neither the value of their men nor the culture."

"..foreign women are less jealous compared to Turkish women. "They eat less junk food and take good care of themselves. They care about their freedom and therefore give you your freedom. They are less patronizing,"...

"guess when I meet a Turkish girl though I have the feeling that she starts the game 1-0 behind,"

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full article

http://www.hurriyetdailynews.com/n.php?n=why-some-turks-like-it-8220expat8221-2010-07-01



Edited (7/4/2010) by thehandsom

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2.       sonunda
5004 posts
 04 Jul 2010 Sun 02:55 pm

ooooh ouch! ungreatful?    aaaaarrrrggggghhhhh!    {#emotions_dlg.lol}



Edited (7/4/2010) by sonunda

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3.       lady in red
6947 posts
 04 Jul 2010 Sun 03:19 pm

 

Quoting sonunda

ooooh ouch! ungreatful?    aaaaarrrrggggghhhhh!

 

where? where? {#emotions_dlg.unsure} - oh he edited it minutes before I read it! {#emotions_dlg.satisfied_nod}



Edited (7/4/2010) by lady in red
Edited (7/4/2010) by lady in red

4.       sonunda
5004 posts
 04 Jul 2010 Sun 03:20 pm

 

Quoting lady in red

 

 

where? where? {#emotions_dlg.unsure}

 

The title of the thread!

5.       lady in red
6947 posts
 04 Jul 2010 Sun 03:22 pm

 

Quoting sonunda

 

 

The title of the thread!

 

Oh I never actually noticed the title - no editing possible there! lol (He is a foreigner - give him a break!!)

6.       sonunda
5004 posts
 04 Jul 2010 Sun 03:23 pm

 

Quoting lady in red

 

 

Oh I never actually noticed the title - no editing possible there! lol (He is a foreigner - give him a break!!)

 

mmmmmmmmm ......nah!

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