im confused. im 19 yrs old girl. im a medical student n my life a bit bored with books. then, there is a man came to my life. at first we just become frend. i know him from Imvu. then he tackled me a lots at first. i had make him cried for me too, i threatened to leave him because that time i feel nothng to him. after that he really go away from me. he didnt reply my email or message. n then, we really leave each other without contact almost a month, n that time i realised i missed him, n i know i love him. i send him email bout this, but he deny me. he rejected me. n until one day, he came and asked me to see me. then i said ok. we chatting bout our relationship n he told me he left me because he doesnt want to hurt me. but he cant escape from me. he missed me too. then again we continue our relationship back. this is long distance relationship as im a mlaysian girl n he is turk. we just contact with email n ym. there are so many things that confusing me, 1)continue this r should i stil elationship as both are not in d same country n both are student? 2) how can i know he is real for me? he didnt say love but always said, "u r my girl" 3) n what really makes a man like a girl, is it just beauty or other things? i dont think im a pretty girl. im afraid he cant accept me in real. 
Frist i am not turkish or mlaysian but i can talk to you
frist you are very young and didnt understand the life in good way
about your questions
continue this r should i stil elationship as both are not in d same country n both are
student?
I think you should not continue becouse your very young and he is very young too and you are seems very undecided from this realtion ship so you are still student and young the life have more chances to find your real love
about different countries I am not see that as a problem if real love the difference doesnt appear but the real problem I was clearing it in the frist.
2) how can i know he is real for me? he didnt say love but always said, "u r my girl
you can ask him that but the word Ur my gril it doesnt romance word Ithink that or that is my opinion
3) n what really makes a man like a girl, is it just beauty or other things? i dont think im a pretty girl. im afraid he cant accept me in real.
to be honest with you I didnt know the things which makes the man love the gril because I am not man but I Think the personality and the kind ,good behaviars ,good heart and reality that can make the man love the gril in addition of that the good look or beauty
but not only beauty you should have amore conifdeness in your self and search for the internal beautyin your self it is the real beauty if you have beautiful soul the all people are see you very beauty
I hope thats help you
Edited (7/25/2010) by nifrtity
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