First of all, I personally think that being gay is not some sort of mental illness which will prevent you from properly functioning in the army. The Dutch army has gay people in it, and it has never led to problem.
Being gay doesn´t prevent you from serving in the army. You have a right not to serve in the army if you are gay. You have to prove it. If you dont want to prove you can do your military duty.
Secondly...really... No other way to prove that you are gay? I think that a conversation with a trained psychologist will be enough. I think it is just inhuman and against any basic human right to ask for men to provide pictures of their sexual actions, while smiling! As if being gay only has to do with sexual actions! I knew I was hetero sexual long before I had any sex. It´s crazy to approach this matter in this way.
In Turkey you could easily find a trained psychologist willing to approve that you are gay if you pay him enough money. I also don´t approve showing pornographic pictures as an evidence to prove that you are gay. But nobody force you to take such pictures. I think every people must have a right not to serve in millitary. This could solve the problem.
I think it´s noticable that I get really upset about this
It´s already hard for a lot of gay men in Turkey to come out of the closet for their sexuality, and than for some of them (luckily not all) to be subjected to this kind of behaviour is very sad.
I agree.